Totally agree with this. If they don't figure out how to work through disappointments and struggles early, when they hit them later (and everyone has struggles at some point), then they may totally fall apart--because they never learned how to fail and how to get back up and try again.
Welcome to the board! Hope you get a lot of advice and don't take anything too personally. Looking forward to hearing how your daughter does as she recovers from her injuries
There was one year that one of the team girls couldn't stick a cartwheel on beam to save her life (old level 5). She finally did it at the last meet of the year--the way we all exploded in cheers in the audience, you would have thought she won the Olympics! She was all smiles too.
And I've also learned to take what my dd says with a grain of salt. Not saying this is true all the time, but there were times when she's be crying about how mean the coach was to her and I find from someone else (usually her older sister, who coached rec there) that the coach was just...
Not all meets do scoring this way. Some just write scores on a big sheet of everyone in that rotation and it goes to the scoring table. Coaches never see it
I always went and dh went if he could and other kids didnt have events. Grandparents would maybe go to State (although my parents have never gone). Other siblings to the big meets--except gymnast sibling who, of course, went as much as possible but she loves cheering on and watching too. We...
Maybe the other parents are jealous, maybe they think you're aloof. I have no idea. But if you want to change things then go out of your way to chat with people. Don't wait for them to say hi at meets, walk up say hi, ask if you can sit by them. Ask how their daughter is doing and if she's...
I'm wondering this too. If she qualified for State already--will the new gym take her now and allow her to compete? Doesn't sound like a safe environment at her current gym, with some of the other girls bullying her and interfering with her training and her coach doesn't sound supportive at all.
Used to have two gymnasts and the biggest hit was to the budget. Never realized how short we really were on money until we went down to one gymnast (the other graduated) and we could eat more food than just ramen! (slightly joking, but at one point I did have to tell younger DD's coach (who...
They downgraded her spin as it didn't make it all the way the final turn Her coach out in an inquiry about her D score but it was rejected--meaning they said "mope! We got it right the first time!"
HC decided Leo and warm ups. Booster club did spirit wear with final choices approved by same HC. I can't imagine giving parents a vote! Too many cooks and nothing gets done