- Jan 4, 2008
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I am so sorry to hear that. Perhaps it would be good to have some other goals as well that your daughter might have more control over.Daughter just wants her gym to open up. Not likely in the near future, sadly.
My heart goes out to your daughter, so many are struggling with restrictions and changes in the gym but easy to forget those who have lost the place that means so much to them for so long.Daughter just wants her gym to open up. Not likely in the near future, sadly.
Well she is 21 and in university, applying for her masters. So she has lots of goals and dreams. Gymnastics has been her passion, for a long time, she misses it. Between her weights gym closing, and her gymnastics gym closing, she is frustrated. I get it.I am so sorry to hear that. Perhaps it would be good to have some other goals as well that your daughter might have more control over.
I am not sure how bad the restrictions are in your area but it sounds really hard. In terms of keeping fit I think it can be amazing what you can do if you are creative even with limited equipment. But the lack of contact with people like gym friends would really difficult to replicate even in online classes. They are better than nothing but probably not the same as physically being with friends.Well she is 21 and in university, applying for her masters. So she has lots of goals and dreams. Gymnastics has been her passion, for a long time, she misses it. Between her weights gym closing, and her gymnastics gym closing, she is frustrated. I get it.
I am not sure how bad the restrictions are in your area but it sounds really hard. In terms of keeping fit I think it can be amazing what you can do if you are creative even with limited equipment. But the lack of contact with people like gym friends would really difficult to replicate even in online classes. They are better than nothing but probably not the same as physically being with friends.
She definitely is working out, online videos, elastics, walking and was biking a lot before winter hit. Gymnastics gyms opened for about 6 weeks last fall, then closed again. Workout/weights gyms the same in her city. Her gym does not have online workouts.
She has put holes in a few walls doing acro gymnastics with her sister, always an adventure, and at least they have each other for company currently.
It definitely is the social side that kills the soul. Online classes, online workouts, online everything. Her one "outing" a week is to work at an outreach center for the homeless, doing active listening and mail hand outs.
My daughter's goal is simply to get back in the gym. That will not happen until after she's vaccinated and she's done enough conditioning on her own to allow for a safe return. After nearly ten months out, she finally did a little conditioning and stretching over the holiday break, but since school started back up this week she hasn't made time. It will be a long road. We'll see what happens.
She will also have to figure out how to balance high school and gym, which I'm honestly not sure is possible. 7 - 8 hours a night of homework + gym just doesn't seem feasible.
wow! 7-8 hours a NIGHT? That is a lot![]()
3-4 hours of homework plus 3.5 hours of gym.
oh...reading skills are important. lol.
I don't think my kiddos have ever had even 3-4 hours, or if they have, it has been rare.
Maybe she's just getting excess busy work because of on-line school, or maybe she's just inefficient, but that's what it's been so far this semester and she isn't even taking a full load or any AP or IB courses. Next year she will have 7 courses and one study hall with 2 APs, 1 IB, 3 pre-IB, and one elective. Friends with older kids have reported similar workloads during non-COVID times.