Let's stop tolerating all abusive coaches | The San Diego Union-Tribune
I found this article, after trying to find information on how much damage "bully" type coaches can do to our kids. We have seen many threads here on the Chalk Bucket, asking about different coaching techniques and tactics and many times, it really comes down to the coach being a bully. I have a really hard time with parents leaving their kids in these kinds of situations because we wouldn't let their teacher bully them, we wouldn't let another kid bully them, yet many times, we actually PAY someone to bully and terrorize our children. Why? I don't think any sport or activity is worth the potential damage that will be done to a child left in this situation.
The hardest thing for me to think about is the fact that the child must eventually start to believe that if their parents keep taking them there, deep down, it must be okay, right? Most definitely wrong, but it happens every day in every sport and it isn't going to stop as long as people keep taking their kids there and paying for them to bully their kids.
I found this article, after trying to find information on how much damage "bully" type coaches can do to our kids. We have seen many threads here on the Chalk Bucket, asking about different coaching techniques and tactics and many times, it really comes down to the coach being a bully. I have a really hard time with parents leaving their kids in these kinds of situations because we wouldn't let their teacher bully them, we wouldn't let another kid bully them, yet many times, we actually PAY someone to bully and terrorize our children. Why? I don't think any sport or activity is worth the potential damage that will be done to a child left in this situation.
The hardest thing for me to think about is the fact that the child must eventually start to believe that if their parents keep taking them there, deep down, it must be okay, right? Most definitely wrong, but it happens every day in every sport and it isn't going to stop as long as people keep taking their kids there and paying for them to bully their kids.