Your comments on the DD wants to do team! thread brought up a bunch of questions for me, but I didn't want to hijack that thread with them. I agree with your points about engaged coaching making a big difference in an athlete's development and goal-reaching potential. I have several questions for you, some for me and some that are more general that will help everyone. I've come to rely on your perspective and I think it your input here can help a lot of us if you're willing to make another marathon reply.
1. The type of coach you mentioned is what virtually everyone wants. How do we, as relatively unknowledgable parents of gymnasts, find that type of coach? What questions can be asked to determine this philosophy? What answers are red flags and which are green flags?
2. You mentioned being able to move a child a level a year through compulsories as a sign of a really good coach. Does this apply to any gymnast or do you have selection criteria for team that weeds out those who are physically or mentally incapable of this type of progress? If you use this type of criteria, what do you look for?
3. You spoke about unexpressed dreams for our gymnasts. Do you think that opening up lines of communication to make those dreams expressed is important between parents-coaches-gymnasts? If so, do you have techniques that work to get the athlete to open up about their dreams? How can we, as parents, best support our child's goal-chasing? What role does each group (parents-coaches-gymnasts) have in shaping and developing those goals over time?
4. What do you recommend as the standard for parent-coach interaction to best help an athlete's development (i.e. through what media do they communicate, how often should they talk, etc.)?
Thanks in advance for taking these on!
1. The type of coach you mentioned is what virtually everyone wants. How do we, as relatively unknowledgable parents of gymnasts, find that type of coach? What questions can be asked to determine this philosophy? What answers are red flags and which are green flags?
2. You mentioned being able to move a child a level a year through compulsories as a sign of a really good coach. Does this apply to any gymnast or do you have selection criteria for team that weeds out those who are physically or mentally incapable of this type of progress? If you use this type of criteria, what do you look for?
3. You spoke about unexpressed dreams for our gymnasts. Do you think that opening up lines of communication to make those dreams expressed is important between parents-coaches-gymnasts? If so, do you have techniques that work to get the athlete to open up about their dreams? How can we, as parents, best support our child's goal-chasing? What role does each group (parents-coaches-gymnasts) have in shaping and developing those goals over time?
4. What do you recommend as the standard for parent-coach interaction to best help an athlete's development (i.e. through what media do they communicate, how often should they talk, etc.)?
Thanks in advance for taking these on!