Our coach said she cannot compete the floor event this time, and cannot compete what so ever next time, so I was just wondering if this is typical. This is our first time competing, and not allowing her to compete in any event if she still has a mental block on one skill seems a little extreme in my opinion for an introduction to competitive gymnastics. I see other coaches spotting, allowing girls to use a mat, etc.
Different gyms (or even coaches in the same gym) can have different philosophies.
Do you have a team handbook and/or contract? If you do, I would look to see if it mentions the scratch policy. I know of a gym that has a strict policy about when they will make a gymnast scratch an event. If the gymnast is struggling with more than one skill in an event, she scratches that event. If she struggles with one skill on floor and one skill on another event, it is at the coach's discretion which event or events will be scratched.
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We are a YMCA gymnastics team, and we only go against other YMCA teams in our area. What this means is that we can get our money back if we scratch the whole meet at least 3 days in advance. There are girls from the team mentioned above who will scratch the entire meet if they know they will have to scratch an event.
We only pay $20/gymnast for regular meets. We don't have to pay a team fee. We also don't have spectator admission fees.
District Championships costs $35/gymnast. We don't have to pay a team fee. We also don't have spectator admission fees.
Regionals/Zone Meet costs $75/gymnast. We don't have to pay a team fee. There is a spectator admission fee of about $5 - $10. We don't ALWAYS go to Regionals. We went the year one of the teams in our district hosted and went last year because they weren't having Y Nationals.
YMCA Nationals costs $100 - $120/gymnast, depending on level. We don't have to pay a team fee. There is a spectator admission fee. There are multiple options including an all-access pass (Opening Ceremonies and ALL meet sessions), a pass that gives access to ALL meet sessions but not Opening Ceremonies, an Opening Ceremonies pass (and a single-day pass to meet sessions). Prices range from $85 for Adult All-Access pass down to $10 for a single-day pass.
This season, we will be paying $310 in meet fees IF we attend Regionals and Nationals.
With regular gymnastics teams, I know they have to register for most meets far in advance. I also know that their meets cost a LOT more than our meets. I know parents at some club gyms in our area that are paying a MINIMUM of $75 per meet. One of the parents said her daughter would have 8 meets.
If the meets were all ONLY $75, that is $600 in meet fees.
--> WARNING: I am a patient person, but I can be obstinate about things. <--
I know that if I was at a club gym and a coach told me that my gymnast "cannot compete what so ever next time," I would be demanding my meet fees back for that meet the coach was forcing her to scratch. When the coach said it is too late to get a refund, I would suggest that since it was the COACH's CHOICE to scratch her, the COACH can pay me. Oh yeah, I would also be getting my daughter out of that gym, even if the coach didn't kick us out.