So although I am saddened by what is going on at UCLA I am not surprised. Racism is racism and no, it is not that complex. This is just like sexual harassment, racial discrimination, or hostile work environment issues at work sites and yes it still goes on everywhere. Working in a hostile environment is an EEOC worthy offense and employees can be bring up charges against their employers for infractions. And given the nature of, especially scholarship athletes, with the NCAA, it is the NCAA's obligation to provide a "safe work environment" for the students. The NCAA is there to help protect the students, it is not there only to protect the institutions as previously stated. The NCAA absolutely should have policies and procedures to deal with racial discrimination with disciplinary actions including up to termination. At this point the athletes have lost all confidence of their coaches and UCLA should clean house and start over. This season is lost at this point. And yes, athletes do get a say in who is coaching them.
As far as singing songs with inappropriate words, even my high school daughter knows that when a bad word comes up in a song, especially a racial slur, you just skip that word and move on with the rest of the song and maybe the best policy would be just to not sing that song if the words could offend someone on your team. I agree with the comments from above that I wish artists would stop using that language, but everyone at this point understands that some words are just not for everyone to say. To use the excuse that "I was just brought up that way" is just that, an excuse. Everyone knows better at this point, and it sounds like teammates gave her a pass the first couple of times, but nothing changed.
The bottom line is that this is about leadership and clearly the coaching staff and the athletic administration has none. You have to listen to your athletes, and yes they need to listen to both sides of the story, but then you need to take action to remedy the situation. It is pretty clear by UCLA's poor performance so far this season that there is something very wrong with the team, I have been wondering what was happening and now I know. How can any of the athletes perform at all? Personally, I would just cancel the next several meets until new coaching staff can be hired and get everyone's head back in the game before someone gets seriously hurt. And the NCAA needs to take action also and create procedures to deal with racial discrimination because unfortunately I am sure this kind of thing goes on with other colleges and other sports. They don't even have to reinvent the wheel, many employers have policies and procedures to deal with discrimination and there is lots of training out there that if effective not performative. I hope that the athletes can get a season this year. They have all worked too hard and long to have to deal with this too.