Hello fellow Gymnastics parents!
I’m posting this thread to get your thoughts on the topic. My daughter is 9, and and has been in JO gymnastics for the past 3 years. She has progressively gotten better, and has placed 1st-3rd AA for the last 2 competitive seasons. We live in a small community, and she has several close friends, that she has been friends with since preschool or even earlier. She also has super close friends at her gym.
Recently, I found out that my DD doesn’t share anything about gymnastics with her friends... not her competition results, or struggles, or accomplishments. I remember that even last competitive season, she used to talk Gymnastics with her friends, but not any more. She says that she didn’t want to be a bragger, and that she found no support from her friends. At school, she hides the fact that she does gymnastics from her PE coaches. She beat several records in her school’s PE class, and told them that she “trains by herself daily”, that’s how she is able to the number of pull ups/push ups, etc. that she does.
I don’t know why, but it concerns me. I am glad that she doesn’t brag, but I also think that friendships exist to support each other. For ex., she gets very nervous before meets, and her friends at school used to be very encouraging. Now she doesn’t share at all. A friend of mine said that it is not a healthy friendship, and the fact that she can’t open up to her friends, and feels “guilty” of her accomplishments, will hold her back in gymnastics, and she will not realize her full potential.
What are your thoughts on this topic? Sorry if it’s about nothing... but it got me thinking ))
I’m posting this thread to get your thoughts on the topic. My daughter is 9, and and has been in JO gymnastics for the past 3 years. She has progressively gotten better, and has placed 1st-3rd AA for the last 2 competitive seasons. We live in a small community, and she has several close friends, that she has been friends with since preschool or even earlier. She also has super close friends at her gym.
Recently, I found out that my DD doesn’t share anything about gymnastics with her friends... not her competition results, or struggles, or accomplishments. I remember that even last competitive season, she used to talk Gymnastics with her friends, but not any more. She says that she didn’t want to be a bragger, and that she found no support from her friends. At school, she hides the fact that she does gymnastics from her PE coaches. She beat several records in her school’s PE class, and told them that she “trains by herself daily”, that’s how she is able to the number of pull ups/push ups, etc. that she does.
I don’t know why, but it concerns me. I am glad that she doesn’t brag, but I also think that friendships exist to support each other. For ex., she gets very nervous before meets, and her friends at school used to be very encouraging. Now she doesn’t share at all. A friend of mine said that it is not a healthy friendship, and the fact that she can’t open up to her friends, and feels “guilty” of her accomplishments, will hold her back in gymnastics, and she will not realize her full potential.
What are your thoughts on this topic? Sorry if it’s about nothing... but it got me thinking ))