Related to this topic - how many of the parents have a say in their dd's optional music? My dd's coaches are Russian and we really have no say in their music. They let us listen to it and if we absolutely hate it, they might consider changing it - but usually not. Of course my dd loves her music (me too) and her coach is doing an awesome job with the choreography, so I'm not complaining. Just wondering how the rest of you all do it.