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My family and my DD are unfortunately going through a similar situation but much worse im afraid lol. We moved from another gym far away for better coaching. Her previous gym a well known gym known for producing many ncaa and elite gymnast in the past not of recent, had special groups and because my DD started in Excell she didn't fit their narrative and was becoming much more skilled than their special girls. Fast forward to new gym it's a much smaller gym high level coaching DD loves it but when she got there she was raw because her previous gym the regular groups have bad coaching. Now that's she's getting reps she's taken off and the parents hate us because the head coach gives my DD all the attention and wants to take her HOPES she's 11 now hopefully by 12 or 13. Parents are pissed the coaches are even mad because they have built relationships with those parents and they complain to them about my kid moving fast she does 5 privates a week we only get 2 etc... my DD is 1000 percent focused and only wants gym for the rest of her life and wants to be elite badly she eats right takes vitamins does all the right things and their kids keep saying the coach is mean their body hurts etc.. the head coach says she has things that can't be coached and my family is extremely humble about it in the gym don't brag or anything . But now the other coaches are stating to always interrupt the head coach during our privates try to use all the bars sets for level 2s and 3s during our privates and they are mad because my DD came in gets the red carpet and moved to the special group with the 8 9 and level 10s. The coaches are trying hard to get the other girls they love their skills that my DD got while at the gym for 3 months they have been training for 2 years. I don't know what to do everyone hates us the head coach says my DD doesn't need friends they were jealous of another girl that's young and really talented in the gym as well but they are friends before the rise and after we are new to the gym they seem to hate new people the coaches and parents because it's a small gym. Don't know what to do the parents talk trash about my DD all day long inside and outside the gym and my DD has literally no friends because their parents poisoned their minds.