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medic3188
For the last 4 years I have been a relatively quiet gym parent. As I have posted in other threads my daughter was asked to move up to level 4. She has been at the gym for extra hours observing and participating in the level 4 practice to try it out. She is also doing her other classes. My daughter was told by her couch that she needs her pullover. She struggles with this skill. My daughter started conditioning at home and doing pullovers on her chin up bar. This is spoted by myself for safety reasons.
So on Wednesday I was talking to the office person at the gym about why my daughter looked very sad. My daughters coach was with the level 4 team instead of her class because of a snow day we had earlier in the week. This women said well why is she upset. I told her that my daughter wanted to be with her coach and the level fours. She said that my daughter cant move up and that she is not ready. I told her that her coach said that she could. She told me that I must have misunderstood. She then went up to another coach and started discussing this. I went up to my daughters coach later and she said that it is a coaches decision. Well this woman continued this the next day going from coach to coach. This is the same woman that talks badly about other gymnasts and parents.
This woman also runs the holiday camps and has been just having the kids run around and not do any structured activities and gymnastics. In the past camps were very structured. So after talking to my daughters coach at length I decided that I would call the owner. I had to call her daughter in law to get her phone number and she said she would call the owner and have her call me.
Five hours go by and the owner calls me and asks me to meet her at the gym today to discuss this. Meanwhile I find out that she called my daughters coach and I do not know who else about this. But someone called my husband before I came home and said that everyone at the gym is in an uproar becuase I set up a meeting with the owner. Which she did not me. They also said I was a pushy parent who often yelled down to the floor and came down to the floor to talk about things with my daughter , which I never do. They also told him that I am getting other parents worked up, which I havent discussed this or anything with other parents. My husband got all mad at me and this person suggested that my husband should not let me go and watch. He will not tell me who called him. I do not know what to do.
So on Wednesday I was talking to the office person at the gym about why my daughter looked very sad. My daughters coach was with the level 4 team instead of her class because of a snow day we had earlier in the week. This women said well why is she upset. I told her that my daughter wanted to be with her coach and the level fours. She said that my daughter cant move up and that she is not ready. I told her that her coach said that she could. She told me that I must have misunderstood. She then went up to another coach and started discussing this. I went up to my daughters coach later and she said that it is a coaches decision. Well this woman continued this the next day going from coach to coach. This is the same woman that talks badly about other gymnasts and parents.
This woman also runs the holiday camps and has been just having the kids run around and not do any structured activities and gymnastics. In the past camps were very structured. So after talking to my daughters coach at length I decided that I would call the owner. I had to call her daughter in law to get her phone number and she said she would call the owner and have her call me.
Five hours go by and the owner calls me and asks me to meet her at the gym today to discuss this. Meanwhile I find out that she called my daughters coach and I do not know who else about this. But someone called my husband before I came home and said that everyone at the gym is in an uproar becuase I set up a meeting with the owner. Which she did not me. They also said I was a pushy parent who often yelled down to the floor and came down to the floor to talk about things with my daughter , which I never do. They also told him that I am getting other parents worked up, which I havent discussed this or anything with other parents. My husband got all mad at me and this person suggested that my husband should not let me go and watch. He will not tell me who called him. I do not know what to do.