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I wish to like this a million times.This extension of the "participation generation" is doing nothing positive for our kids. Trust me, I manage a ton of them.
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I wish to like this a million times.This extension of the "participation generation" is doing nothing positive for our kids. Trust me, I manage a ton of them.
...We had a teammate of my DD who said to my daughter that she needed to stop winning so many medals because she was making other girls mad who weren't winning any.
She says she doesn't want other girls to feel bad if they don't have anything. Great lesson for many other competitors!
I don't get the lesson. It's not as if the kids who don't win don't realize they don't have a medal.
One medal or 4, folks/kids know who is winning and who isn't. It's also OK to be proud when you win.
I've observed a gymnast who, after winning a medal on an event, goes back to sit with her team, waiting for the next event to be called up, during which time she stows her medal in her bag. No matter how many times she's gone up and won a medal, her next trip up is without any hardware. By the time AA is announced, even if she's been up there four times already, she still goes up without her earlier medals. Every meet I've seen her at, she does this.
She says she doesn't want other girls to feel bad if they don't have anything. Great lesson for many other competitors!
I don't recall anyone advocating bad behavior, in winning or losing.On the other side of this I have seen kids be sour winners though too. Rubbing it in when they win. This is also not cool either. Walking around with your nose in the air and talking about how much better your kid is not cool either.
It's okay to be proud when you win. Because it comes from disappointment when you don't win. You can't succeed unless you have had failure.
I've observed a gymnast who, after winning a medal on an event, goes back to sit with her team, waiting for the next event to be called up, during which time she stows her medal in her bag. No matter how many times she's gone up and won a medal, her next trip up is without any hardware. By the time AA is announced, even if she's been up there four times already, she still goes up without her earlier medals. Every meet I've seen her at, she does this.
She says she doesn't want other girls to feel bad if they don't have anything. Great lesson for many other competitors!
Maybe it's a regional thing or a boy thing. At our meets the kids keep the medals on usually.Our boys were taught to do this as well. Sometime, it isn't possible, as they are still walking when they get called up again. Most will then take the one medal off and put it in their pocket until they can get back. One medal at a time is the typical way they do it. At the end, for pictures, they put them all back on. Not sure why they do it, but I notice almost all the boys do this at the meets we attend.
Yep. I wish to like this a million times too.it would never occur to me that someone shouldn't wear their medals. if they aren't supposed to wear them, then why the heck are they on a string? lol. they surely aren't gonna wear them to school the next monday...
sorry, but this suggesting winners should be so modest as to remove their award seems to go along with the "trophy for everyone" mentality of which i am not a fan.
Sounds like one child's attempt at being gracious and humble in the face of success. Pride has many forms.I don't get the lesson. It's not as if the kids who don't win don't realize they don't have a medal.
One medal or 4, folks/kids know who is winning and who isn't. It's also OK to be proud when you win.
I am just trying to understand how wearing medals you earned excludes someone from being gracious and humble.Sounds like one child's attempt at being gracious and humble in the face of success. Pride has many forms.
My DD has done both, taken off her medals in between events and left them on. I asked her about it and she said if someone on her team has had a bad meet or is upset about something she is not comfortable wearing the medals during awards. Very interesting.
it would never occur to me that someone shouldn't wear their medals. if they aren't supposed to wear them, then why the heck are they on a string? lol. they surely aren't gonna wear them to school the next monday...
sorry, but this suggesting winners should be so modest as to remove their award seems to go along with the "trophy for everyone" mentality of which i am not a fan.