Hi everyone! A little background.
I have a 9year old level 6 boy. He was with the assistant coach for his level 4 and level 5 seasons....we love love love this coach...then when he moved to level 6 he got the head coach. We have lots of issues with the head coach, as do other parents...one parent left the gym last year instead of going to level 6 with head coach. We considered leaving but ultimately stayed.
We recently found out that the assistant coach is leaving. He has taken a head coach position at another gym that is about 20-25 minutes away. That gym has a tiny boys team currently, but has a good boys rec program and asst coach hopes to grow the program.
The gym we are currently at is literally 4 minutes from our house, DS has all of his friends on the team, including his best best best friend who will probably never leave the current gym.
We have a few options....
1. leave DS where he is.
pros are that he stays with friends and we live super close.
cons are that we don't love the program or the coach, and I worry staying would be detrimental to DS's gymnastics.
2. go with the asst coach to new gym 20-25 minutes away.
pros, I believe this is the best coach for him.
cons, leaving friends (although there is a possible 1 boy who will go with us) commuting (this is huge for me), small program, uncertain future.
3. switch DS to gym about 15 mins away
pros, it is an established program with many upper level gymnasts.....his former teammate is there so he'll know one person.
cons....not convinced that the move will improve DS's gymnastics....and again leaving friends.
I have been so stressed out about this decision.....DS doesn't know that asst coach is leaving. But I have asked him about switching with his former teammate and he says no way because he doesn't want to leave his friends, so I think from his standpoint, this will take a lot of convincing, but I am just so afraid of keeping him where he is now and it hurting him.
thoughts? sorry if this seems a little rambly....
I have a 9year old level 6 boy. He was with the assistant coach for his level 4 and level 5 seasons....we love love love this coach...then when he moved to level 6 he got the head coach. We have lots of issues with the head coach, as do other parents...one parent left the gym last year instead of going to level 6 with head coach. We considered leaving but ultimately stayed.
We recently found out that the assistant coach is leaving. He has taken a head coach position at another gym that is about 20-25 minutes away. That gym has a tiny boys team currently, but has a good boys rec program and asst coach hopes to grow the program.
The gym we are currently at is literally 4 minutes from our house, DS has all of his friends on the team, including his best best best friend who will probably never leave the current gym.
We have a few options....
1. leave DS where he is.
pros are that he stays with friends and we live super close.
cons are that we don't love the program or the coach, and I worry staying would be detrimental to DS's gymnastics.
2. go with the asst coach to new gym 20-25 minutes away.
pros, I believe this is the best coach for him.
cons, leaving friends (although there is a possible 1 boy who will go with us) commuting (this is huge for me), small program, uncertain future.
3. switch DS to gym about 15 mins away
pros, it is an established program with many upper level gymnasts.....his former teammate is there so he'll know one person.
cons....not convinced that the move will improve DS's gymnastics....and again leaving friends.
I have been so stressed out about this decision.....DS doesn't know that asst coach is leaving. But I have asked him about switching with his former teammate and he says no way because he doesn't want to leave his friends, so I think from his standpoint, this will take a lot of convincing, but I am just so afraid of keeping him where he is now and it hurting him.
thoughts? sorry if this seems a little rambly....