My beloved DD is so good about all this. She has been stretching and icing daily for three months, in the end she just had to stop as things could not improve with repeated pounding. She goes back to gym on Wed for the first time in four weeks. The coach will only really do non jumping/running stuff with her until she gets the go ahead to do more. She may only compete beam and bars this year (fortunately she can do that in Quebec, it would just me no "states" equivalent)
Hopefully this is just a growth issue and it will pass with focussed effort. We are very lucky to live in a ski resort and therefore we have a fabulous sports injury clinic with a orthopedic doctor. SO, I think she/we are doing all we can. At a certain point genetics will win out and we'll work out what to do then.
Fortunately we were never in gym for any major goals, just to have the most fun, which she has had.