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momofagymmie
Hi,
I'm in a pickle
. I'm pretty close to asking my dd to quit gymnastics
. She has her skills for the next level as I'm sure, do most of the gymnasts on the team. i know she has the skills because they were written up in the gym all summer and she had the list and was checking it off as she went as she has every year. At this time though the coach has decided to move only 2..... that is 2 out of 20 gymnasts up a level. I'm not sure that speaks well of the coaches. My daughter has gotten any number of reasons but they are all different from each coach and I don't understand them. 1. she's only been at the gym a year (don't get that at all,we moved gyms because she grew out of the old one last year) 2, they'd like to move the group up as a whole and as a whole it's not ready....3. she could score better if she stayed in her level ( can't figure that out, she was 3rd in state last year) . When I spoke to the hc he said she was very close... I don't know much about gymnastics technically, but for the most part we've been in it for fun now it's getting murky... it's not fun to have the skills and be held back. For a mom its not fun to pay for it & take this amount of time away from family and friends and see her upset. Unfortunately her high school doesn't have a team but she's athletic enough i can see her moving into any number of high school sports and doing well. It's free.. it's not as much time and it's more team oriented. I know she loves the sport and I know she has the next level skills so it's seems really unfair i just can't get a handle on how to manage this. Insight from coaches would be useful.
I'm in a pickle