Y's generally speaking are less 'winning' oriented and more 'child centered'.
I was at a private gym and there was lots of cattienss and favoratism and my kid was miserable.
I am very happy with the values I am instilling in my child learning at the Y.
Everyone there is very positive, the kids are helpful and cheer each other on. It is more professional than i could ever imagine....extreemly high standards...
Our Y competes only USAG because that is all we have in Fl. and we are in a very competitive state. We happen to beat most private gyms for girls and boys in USAG....Our coaching staff kicks butt....(I feel it is really a private gym in a Y)
Just as you find less competitive coaching in private gyms, the same goes for Ys.
I think you are just in a state that does not have the quantity of programs for you to choose from....I think there is Maine Springers?
It just depends how good your team is, if it is really good, go for the best USAG. If it is strictly recreational then go AAU. I don't think Y do too much competing against one another anymore because of sheer numbers.....The YMCA National Championship is it really and this is totally for fun....It does not get you anything for USAG.....
BUT I am sure my kid will be very happy winning something at a 'NATIONAL" meet.....After all this sport is done for the love of it..right?
If you DD really loves it, find a gym that is good....you would be surprised what a kid can accomplish with good coaching...