kmc
Proud Parent
I need your opinion as to whether I should say something to the coach or am I being a CGM?
My daughter is 11 years old, and this will be her fifth year competing. She is in Xcel and will compete Platimun this year.
She came home very upset from practice. She has been struggling with her BWO on beam. She had it fine, now it is gone. I saw the recent post on here where advice was given about thinking about the "rainbows" that are made, and that the toe should follow the rainbow made by the nose. I mentioned this to her as she was leaving the car to head into practice. Just something to think about if the BWO wasn't going well today.
After beam, she had gone up to her coach to tell her what I had told her. I think dd was kind of excited to think about it that way. As dd walked away, the coach called over to the other coach and said "Hey, did you know dd's mom told her how to do a BWO on beam? Maybe the parents should get their own gym and teach their kids."
It was said loud enough that everyone heard. Dd felt that she insulted me and got very upset.
My initial reaction is that it was inappropriate for a coach to make that comment publicly and that I should speak to her about how it made dd did feel.
Or, am I just being a mama bear because dd's feelings were hurt? And, I know us parents should let the coaches do the coaching, but aside from encouraging dd to be her best, I don't usually say anything specific. The first time I do - look how it ended up.
So, do I say anything or just let it go?
My daughter is 11 years old, and this will be her fifth year competing. She is in Xcel and will compete Platimun this year.
She came home very upset from practice. She has been struggling with her BWO on beam. She had it fine, now it is gone. I saw the recent post on here where advice was given about thinking about the "rainbows" that are made, and that the toe should follow the rainbow made by the nose. I mentioned this to her as she was leaving the car to head into practice. Just something to think about if the BWO wasn't going well today.
After beam, she had gone up to her coach to tell her what I had told her. I think dd was kind of excited to think about it that way. As dd walked away, the coach called over to the other coach and said "Hey, did you know dd's mom told her how to do a BWO on beam? Maybe the parents should get their own gym and teach their kids."
It was said loud enough that everyone heard. Dd felt that she insulted me and got very upset.
My initial reaction is that it was inappropriate for a coach to make that comment publicly and that I should speak to her about how it made dd did feel.
Or, am I just being a mama bear because dd's feelings were hurt? And, I know us parents should let the coaches do the coaching, but aside from encouraging dd to be her best, I don't usually say anything specific. The first time I do - look how it ended up.
So, do I say anything or just let it go?