I wouldn't be pleased if a significant number of gymnasts are repeating level 3 after 16 hours of training. I would want to have a closer look to understand why this is the case before making any changes. Are the groups too large? Are the gymnasts really young? How experienced are the coaches...
I would be ok with 16 gymnasts assuming there were at least 2 coaches and the group was well structured to allow for enough time on equipment. For example, I would expect them to split into 2 groups at certain times (eg beam/bars) so they can maximize the use of the equipment and not be...
Thanks again! As I think things through, I am leaning towards the idea of suggesting ice cream afterwards so I can observe the interactions myself. I really don't want to make things worst by intervening unnecessarily so this will allow me more time to think about things.
I'm not entirely sure what is causing her to be excluded but I have a few guesses. She is 1-2 years younger than most of the teammates, so it could be that age/maturity is playing into it. There is 1 girls her age but their personalities are quite different.
Thanks for the additional insights. I do worry about the play dates happening and my daughter noticing that she's not being included. In your experience, have the coaches been able to help resolve the situation?
Thanks, I appreciate these insights. We don't have a formal meeting with our coach until the end of the summer and I'm not sure at warrants a separate meeting at this point. It certainly is something I'd like to keep an eye on so that things don't get any more uncomfortable for my daughter.
How do you handle scenarios where your gymnast is left out of gatherings outside the gym? Do you do nothing, focus on non-gym friends, etc. Do you try to coordinate a future gathering so it is more inclusive? Do you talk to the parents?
Retired as a level 10 and was able to regain skills to compete as a level 10 again. I find it really admirable and courageous to attempt regardless of how it works out.
I think this depends on why you are leaving. If it's something that can be addressed then I think it would be fair to have a discussion in advance and then do a trial if it can't be addressed. That way the departure also shouldn't come as a surprise to the gym.