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Ex member
My dd has been in her disability development group for nearly 1 year now and absolutely loves it.
A few weeks ago a new girl joined the group who is a couple of years younger then my dd, I am pleased that another girl has joined the group as there was only my dd and an older girl before and 4 boys.
This new girl has been giving my dd a bit of an hard time, nothing too extreme, just annoying her and calling her names, during the last session the new girl kept banging into my dd on the vault run and kept blowing in her face and during conditioning they had a see who could "hold the plank" the longest competition and the new girl said I don't want to be next to "a small person", part of my dd's disability is short stature (she is nearly 11 and is the height of a 5 year old), my dd is not all that sensitive about her height but this really got to her I think the reason it got to her us because this girl was winding dd up most of the session, this new girl is 8 and taller than dd.
I have talked to dd about it and asked dd if she gas told her coach and dd said she did and that the coach would have a chat with the girl, dd said that never happened. I have advised dd to try and ignore this girl unless she gets physical.
Any suggestions on how I can help dd rise above this or do you advise a meeting with the coach, my dd has no issues with any other team member. I don't want this to get to my dd too much and stop her enjoying her chosen sport.
I am aware that this is a delicate situation as it is a disability group.
A few weeks ago a new girl joined the group who is a couple of years younger then my dd, I am pleased that another girl has joined the group as there was only my dd and an older girl before and 4 boys.
This new girl has been giving my dd a bit of an hard time, nothing too extreme, just annoying her and calling her names, during the last session the new girl kept banging into my dd on the vault run and kept blowing in her face and during conditioning they had a see who could "hold the plank" the longest competition and the new girl said I don't want to be next to "a small person", part of my dd's disability is short stature (she is nearly 11 and is the height of a 5 year old), my dd is not all that sensitive about her height but this really got to her I think the reason it got to her us because this girl was winding dd up most of the session, this new girl is 8 and taller than dd.
I have talked to dd about it and asked dd if she gas told her coach and dd said she did and that the coach would have a chat with the girl, dd said that never happened. I have advised dd to try and ignore this girl unless she gets physical.
Any suggestions on how I can help dd rise above this or do you advise a meeting with the coach, my dd has no issues with any other team member. I don't want this to get to my dd too much and stop her enjoying her chosen sport.
I am aware that this is a delicate situation as it is a disability group.