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- Feb 28, 2013
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Hi, L5+ daughter can put up a fight sometimes for practice. My wife is nearing end of patience. She works late night nights in parent booster club to help pay.... Then gets hit with "I don't want to go..."
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Hi, L5+ daughter can put up a fight sometimes for practice. My wife is nearing end of patience. She works late night nights in parent booster club to help pay.... Then gets hit with "I don't want to go..."
Honestly I think the best thing you can do when you get hit with the "I don't wanna go".is say "well that's your choice" and don't take her. She can deal with the consequences of explaining to her coach why she was not there.
perhaps even expect her to owe you the money you paid for the training session too.
After several days of my daughter complaining about going, I slammed on the the brakes, turned the van around , drive back home and said "fine! You can quit. Go call your coaches and tell them you are done!" She frantically said that's not what she meant and she didn't want to quit! Never complained like that again.
I don't believe in skipping whenever they want If they made a commitment to the sport but an occasional mental health day is fine. And if too many are asked for, a serious conversation about whether to continue in the sport or what the real problem is is needed
Hi, L5+ daughter can put up a fight sometimes for practice. My wife is nearing end of patience. She works late night nights in parent booster club to help pay.... Then gets hit with "I don't want to go..."
Thanks for the great replies - I have to admit...the first couple caught me completely off guard! She just turned 10, and has only competed for about 1.5 years. We moved and thus had to change gyms. She does like it. When we pick her up, things are always good. I get the MWF 0530 practices and she's still asleep so I don't hear the complaining. My wife gets the T/Th after school practices and she complains because there is no break from getting off the bus to getting into the car and a leo. There are dozens of other things I'm sure you all have experienced. My wife is explaining that developmental doesn't focus on L5 specific so she doesn't get those "good" scores like she did in L4. And yes, she occassionally asks what life is like on the "outside" of the gym
Six days a week total....Saturday's for 4 hours.
Um, 20 hrs maybe? Mornings r tough...school principal is on our case for tardies.