- Mar 3, 2016
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My daughter has a tendancy to become somewhat single minded about something that she enjoys and she seems to go through phases where it is worse than other times. Right now it seems gymnastics is all she thinks about. I love that she has something that she is so passionate about but worry that it will hinder her friendships (I envision the other children being like "That girl is weird, all she wants to do is gymnastics"). I also worry that if she ever is unable to continue gymnastics for some reason it would be devastating.
Here are a few examples:
1)Over the weekend we met a family that has two children close to her age at the beach. We brough beach toys and water toys. Granted, the water was too cold to really play in but all my daughter wanted to do was cartwheels, backwalkovers and such. I kept gently reminding her that her friends may prefer to play something other than gymnastics and she would stop for a mintue to try another activity but always went back to tumbling.
2)We went to a birthday party at place that has lots of toys and inflatable bounce houses. All she did was tumble in one of the bounce houses. She had fun but never did anything else.
3)She had her best friend (who is on her gymnastics team, same age, same level) spend the night and the friend finally said "Can we do something other than make up gymnastics routines?" My daughter did and they found other things to do and had fun, so she can do other things.
She does have a bit of social anxiety and gymnastics is comforting to her. I have noticed that when she is anxious her go to is talking about gymnastics because it calms her, maybe that is also why she is so drawn to doing gymnastics. I am a worrier though, so now I am at the point of trying to decide if this is a healthy passion or an unhealthy obsession.
Here are a few examples:
1)Over the weekend we met a family that has two children close to her age at the beach. We brough beach toys and water toys. Granted, the water was too cold to really play in but all my daughter wanted to do was cartwheels, backwalkovers and such. I kept gently reminding her that her friends may prefer to play something other than gymnastics and she would stop for a mintue to try another activity but always went back to tumbling.
2)We went to a birthday party at place that has lots of toys and inflatable bounce houses. All she did was tumble in one of the bounce houses. She had fun but never did anything else.
3)She had her best friend (who is on her gymnastics team, same age, same level) spend the night and the friend finally said "Can we do something other than make up gymnastics routines?" My daughter did and they found other things to do and had fun, so she can do other things.
She does have a bit of social anxiety and gymnastics is comforting to her. I have noticed that when she is anxious her go to is talking about gymnastics because it calms her, maybe that is also why she is so drawn to doing gymnastics. I am a worrier though, so now I am at the point of trying to decide if this is a healthy passion or an unhealthy obsession.