my4buffaloes
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- Apr 14, 2010
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Dd had another great meet this weekend - except she thinks she did horrible. Bars looked beautiful but they were tough scoring compared to other meets. Then beam - she hates beam! Except she does well - has won several times this year. Horrible warm up, horrible attitude, etc. She nails the routine. The least wobbily routine I have ever seen her do, but her split jump was not 180 and she got a 9.1 - low for her this season, but a very good score. She was so mad about her score!
They go to floor and she has a horrible warm up, horrible attitude, etc. OK, the warm up looked good to me, but she says it was horrible. She again nails the routine. Except she put her heel down on her turn and her switch leap the back leg was low (I only know these things because she repeatedly told me those were the reasons she did so horrible). So she was so disgusted with herself that she refused to look at her score - a 9.3 - yes clearly she did horrible.
I didn't really get to talk to her much after the meet before awards but she was crying saying how bad she did. Of course when she placed on 3 of the 4 events she was stunned. I noticed it especially floor, but I didn't know why at that point, but because of the 2 things mentioned above she figured she wouldn't place at all. She finished 3rd AA. Except after the meet I am again met with tears and frustration over how horrible she did.
I am ready to pull my hair out. The 2 hour ride home was not pleasant. No matter what I said I was met with several negatives about her performance. It isn't as if she is used to placing first on everything, she has been very up and down over the years and she is used to not placing on anything at all and scores in the 8's being season highs for her. This year has gone well though, but again there have been ups and downs. I don't know what to do with her! Ideas? Her coach just said they are working on it and that she is better than she used to be. Her negative attitude is not towards anyone else or over anything that anyone else did. Just totally over her abilities and performances. Ugh, this is so frustrating to watch!
They go to floor and she has a horrible warm up, horrible attitude, etc. OK, the warm up looked good to me, but she says it was horrible. She again nails the routine. Except she put her heel down on her turn and her switch leap the back leg was low (I only know these things because she repeatedly told me those were the reasons she did so horrible). So she was so disgusted with herself that she refused to look at her score - a 9.3 - yes clearly she did horrible.
I didn't really get to talk to her much after the meet before awards but she was crying saying how bad she did. Of course when she placed on 3 of the 4 events she was stunned. I noticed it especially floor, but I didn't know why at that point, but because of the 2 things mentioned above she figured she wouldn't place at all. She finished 3rd AA. Except after the meet I am again met with tears and frustration over how horrible she did.
I am ready to pull my hair out. The 2 hour ride home was not pleasant. No matter what I said I was met with several negatives about her performance. It isn't as if she is used to placing first on everything, she has been very up and down over the years and she is used to not placing on anything at all and scores in the 8's being season highs for her. This year has gone well though, but again there have been ups and downs. I don't know what to do with her! Ideas? Her coach just said they are working on it and that she is better than she used to be. Her negative attitude is not towards anyone else or over anything that anyone else did. Just totally over her abilities and performances. Ugh, this is so frustrating to watch!