I don't know why I am feeling this way.... but here it goes. My dd is a L8, 13 yo, 8th grader, trains 22 hrs a week. We have a big decision on what high school to attend next year. Stay public or go to private. Private has a ton of homework, but is an excellent school, also very expensive or stay publlic- still good, not a lot of homework etc.
OK, here's my problem. Lately I have been wondering if she shouldn't quit gym and be a normal high schooler. Be involved in cheer or the play or whatever she chooses. Is she going to miss the high school experience if she stays in gym? The chance of any of our kids doing gym in college is so small, I just hope we don't look back and say we made a mistake by letting her do this. Will she get hurt or lose interest in gym before she even graduates high school? Are her friendships at school suffer since she doesn't have time to socialize?
As you can see, I have been overanalyzing this. Let me add, she loves gym. Is doing pretty good at L8 (8's on everything), is struggling with her connection on beam, but overall progressing nicely. She loves her gym friends and has no plans of quitting. I would never make her quit gymnastics. But should I be encouraging her to get involved in other things and see if it sparks an interest?
Help! Anyone have any insight?
OK, here's my problem. Lately I have been wondering if she shouldn't quit gym and be a normal high schooler. Be involved in cheer or the play or whatever she chooses. Is she going to miss the high school experience if she stays in gym? The chance of any of our kids doing gym in college is so small, I just hope we don't look back and say we made a mistake by letting her do this. Will she get hurt or lose interest in gym before she even graduates high school? Are her friendships at school suffer since she doesn't have time to socialize?
As you can see, I have been overanalyzing this. Let me add, she loves gym. Is doing pretty good at L8 (8's on everything), is struggling with her connection on beam, but overall progressing nicely. She loves her gym friends and has no plans of quitting. I would never make her quit gymnastics. But should I be encouraging her to get involved in other things and see if it sparks an interest?
Help! Anyone have any insight?