It wasn't so much a choice as a lack of choice that lead us to the IDP because it was really the only option available to a then four year old who had exhausted the possibilities of rec gymnastics but was not old enough for the fairly large groups of older girls found in the NDP levels. It's the decision to STAY in the IDP that is the one I find constantly comes up. But as her club is offering a nurturing coaching style without ridiculous hours and are happy to have her, I am happy to stay, at least until she's older or grows out of the IDP (literally in her case, as she is tall enough so that her height is likely to rule her out before her skill progression does).
She wasn't involved in the decision because at four and even now at five, she is too young to understand just what it means to commit to the IDP. Right now all she knows is that she is having fun and being challenged. Possibly, to contradict what I said above, there may come a point where I will shift her to the NDP to leave a place open for a girl who really does want to go the distance because to be completely honest, I don't want her dedicating her whole childhood to one sport to the exclusion of other sporting, social, academic and leadership opportunities. I think that all of the benefits of gymnastics can come from the NDP. More possibly, because taking international competition out of the equation altogether reduces a potential element of pressure.
I do wonder about the IDP. I don't know enough to form a properly informed opinion, but I do wonder. It doesn't make sense to me to essentially rule out all the girls who didn't make it to a HPC while extremely young, or to risk burnout by making the only path to international competition a fairly exclusive up or out scenario with fairly little in the way of opportunity for talented latecomers. I know in theory there's a path for them, but I wonder how often it happens in practice. Lauren Mitchell is Australia's most successful gymnast so far. She didn't start until six, when in contrast, plenty of today's IDP girls had been taking their very young selves to the gym multiple times a week all year without break for two, sometimes three years by that age. This is the second year now I have watched small girls balance their IDP training with their first year of school. Even for girls who dearly love gymnastics, it is a huge thing for a program to require of them.