I don't know if you read my reply before the big meltdown- but my DD was in the same situation. It was difficult, but she met a lot of girls from other teams at the meets and they all cheered for her! She was so unhappy about the season on her own that she refused to move up the next season because she would have been alone again. It was not fulfilling to remain in the same level an additional year, and the season ended with a lot of tears. She is now at a gym where all of the optionals train together so there is a range of ages and she does not feel on her own anymore.