I'm the mom of a gymnast too, but I had to wear a back brace for 2 years for scoliosis as well (at age 13-14). The first month was by far the worst. I remember crying a lot during the first week--but please let her know that it gets easier every day. I was a swimmer and not a gymnast but I faced some of the same issues. This will date me but I remember having so much trouble "pegging" my pants (folding them over at the bottom--that was the trend then) because I couldn't bend over. I traveled to my swim meets without my parents a lot so my teammates needed to help me put the brace on--and that was definitely a bonding experience. The best part about the brace was that it prevented me from needing surgery. My curve was at 45 degrees when I stopped growing and the orthopedist thought it wasn't necessary. Thirty years later, I've had very few back problems so I'm very grateful. I'd also say...and this will sound corny...but it also taught me a bit about how to overcome challenges and how to ask for help when I needed it. I wish your daughter the best. Let me know if there's anything else I can do...I'm keeping an eye on my daughter...she may be in the same boat in a few years.