GymBeeMom
Proud Parent
- Jul 12, 2012
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On January 8 I posted a desperate parent post about my DD's fear. She'd been dealing with it for what seemed like way too long, months. That was January 8 (important). Fast forward to January 30, She is doing ALL the things that she was afraid of , adding new skills on all events, and has no memory of the frozen fear she felt on any event just a few short weeks ago. While I was planning her new career as a soccer player or artist, she was taking the time she needed to process the next steps in her gymnastics career. I need to butt out, be patient, and TRUST the process. NOthing I said or did made her get over her fear. NO bribes, no pressure, no rationalizing would have done the trick. NO reverse psychology, no private lessons, no sports psychologist was used. She just decided to stop being scared and do what she was ready to do, when she was ready to do it. Because, as the coach said, she's 8. There is plenty of time, which was all she needed. Let this be a lesson to all of us frustrated, well-meaning, adoring parents. And to everyone who listened to my worried mommy heart, bless you and may this experience help you, too! Onward...