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Ok she has been resting was back at practice on Tuesday and tried bars. She came home with a little pain but it was gone by morning. Hasn't been in pain since. She is going to try Bars at a meet tonight and see how it feels. Hoping she isn't pushing her self just to get back to gymnastics. I told her try the warm up and see how it feels any pain at all then tell coach she isn't ready.

She did conditioning and bars on Tues. Doesn't have club practice again until Monday as Club is away for a meet.

Goes back to DR on 14th to see if pain is still happening. She is suppose to try to add moves this coming week (yes she has added before the time the DR said but what can I do she is going to do what she wants at this age)

The Dx is Muscle spasms that are pulling the spin temp out of alignment. You could see it on the tests.

The part I didn't like is on Tues I went to gym owner to let him know what the DR said and the restrictions DR put on her - No hard jumping, no hyperextention moves for the back. Can do Conditioning and stretching and try some easy bar moves if no pain then can try other moves - add moves in slowly.

Owners response "What does that mean?" "This is just going to give her an excuse to get out of working out!" "So how bad can a muscle spasm be? She has to work through the Pain?"

Ok that comment had me MAD!!!! I'm trying to get her back into the gym slowly so she doesn't hurt her self any worse before sectionals and states and this fool thinks she is faking to get out of working out. She of course is giving me I can handle it mom - I can do it all now. She is chomping at the bit to get back to the gym.

I gave him the Ortho Dr's note and number and told him I have no idea what the DR means and he can call him directly to get things clarified. I took it to mean she can stretch, do conditioning, no tumbling for now, can try to add in bars slowly. If no pain can try to add in other events slowly but you can call to see if I'm understanding correctly.

Ok owners and coaches how would you handle it?

I know this is the 3rd injury 2 of which have been atributed to over training (gym owner has stepped up the repetition of routines alot) but she has never had an injury that kept her out more than a day or 2 in all the years we have done this. She has always given it her all and tried to work thorugh pain.
 
Honestly if I couldn't trust the coach, or my kid for that matter, then my gymmie would have to stay home. Training through back pain is just not okay. I would have real issues with any coach who thought otherwise.

You know where I am coming from on this. One thing does lead to another. If your dd wants to continue to do gymnastics she needs to get than healing her back 100% is necessary for longevity in the sport. An unsupportive coach is not what she needs.
 
Wow! It always surprises me that coaches/owners are like that! I have to say, I would be concerned about my child if she were at a gym that didn't support recovery from injury.

Our gym tends toward conservative with injury...if the dr says one week only conditioning, they will say two!

They are also great about calling the ortho to clarify if clueless mom doesn't really understand the ease back in directions :-) Me, being that clueless mom, that is!!

So, I guess as a parent I'd be very concerned. I'm sorry I don't recall your gym background (as in, how long you've been there and do you love them) but it would absolutely have me thinking twice about where she is at.

Hope it gets better!
 
I would be very upset with that type of a response from the coach. You may need the doctor to put in writing what exactly your dd can and cannot do. Many times they won't talk with a coach unless you've given approval since it border if not violate HIPPA laws.

As for dd, I would tell her she either does what the doc says or she stays home---simple as that. Trying to push through bar skills when she's not supposed to will not help her heal any faster and could delay healing. Can I ask why she is going to even attempt a bar routine tonight at a meet? I can see her going to support her team, but not to compete.
 
*facepalm* What a poor response. She only gets one back for her whole life. Pushing it now is not going to achieve anything useful.
 
I guess facepalm's response was removed as I don't see it.

I let her try the bars routine as she has been pain free (she says) since that monday and that was the event that the DR said she could try on Tues to see if there was pain after. She seemed ok and so I allowed it.

This is our 2nd season at this gym. Over all the gym is great and my DD is actually thriving there. The owner seems to go through mood swings on day he is great the next who knows. This seems recent. I think there may be some family issues too going on with him. I also think he was upset she wasn't going to the meet for the club this weekend as she is one of their top scorers and they could have a chance to get a team trophy with her there. Since its one of the bigger meets this season I know he was disapointed that we weren't going. The gyms rules if they can't complete all events then they compete none so just doing bars for him wasn't going to happne.

In general the owner doesn't have the best PR skills especially when a gymnast is injured - Im not sure if he know how to do a limited training schedule but we won't be looking for a new gym because of this at all.

I will be staying when DD is there until she gets the 100% ok. because she will only be there to condition and do some bars at this point so she will leave in about an hour and a half.

DD seems not to have pain today after competing the bars last night so I think things are going well over all.
 
This is one of the strange things about gymnastics in comparison to other sports. I definitely saw this type of attitude with my older daughter. A LOT of pressure to work through injuries that really shouldn't be worked through. This is where it is important to advocate for your child. I think a no-nonsense approach dealing with only the facts (as provided by your doctor) is the only way to go. Don't let the coach place a guilt trip on you. Your child needs you to stand up for her.

So wierd. We have two sons who have played high level hockey and have absolutely NEVER had this but experienced it regularly with our daughter.

Best Wishes,

ZZMom
 

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