Besides all of that, I was just told that I'm paying a lot more money than any of them... which is enough to make me go get my daughter right now.That sounds awful!! I would not want to be there. Our coaches do have favorites but they generally try to keep it not obvious and they still train the girls equally. While it's normal to have some kids you prefer working with, 99% of what you described is not normal snd a red flag!
I guess I should be happy that my money is their favorite, but not my child. LOL.