She is 11 now and started beg class right after her 9th b day, she wasn't doing rec for more than two months, maybe not even that, then she went fast track for a few months and then team. She has been team training now since like December of 2012. She competed level 3 last year and was always in the top 3 at every meet on her team and the coach still treated her like this.
She mostly has her for beam and floor, but she does coach other things, like today, she had her for everything, her husband is at a camp. She doesn't have a problem with any of her other coaches. But this one coach makes her not want to go to the gym some days. I try and tell her maybe it's because she knows you can do better blah blah blah.
Honestly, I find her very unapproachable as well and her husband told me everyone is scared of her lol lol. He's very nice, so I guess I know who wears the pants in the house.
We are going to see how the rest of this season plays out. I don't know what more to do. I got them an hour private together to see if that would
Help, it did for a day DD said.
I can't hear in the gym, but I can see her face ect. My daughter doesn't really make things up and when I talked to said coach before she never denied anything I was saying, but did get very defensive, which I didn't like. Wasn't like she felt bad at all that she had hurt my daughters feelings.
I have asked her if she's getting sick of it and if she wants to quit and she says no! I tell her I'm not going to be mad at all. But I have noticed a change in her, that she doesn't seem as happy. She had step throat/fever before we came to this gym and she cried and was so mad I wouldn't let her go to class.
Thanks for all the comments and help. I have a lot to think about. I really don't want to move gyms either, but it's gotta get better for DD.