@Lkgymom If this was out of the blue and just one day - then put it into perspective (out of the blue and just one day) and let. it. go.
But your strong reaction to this one day and one time event (and to differing viewpoints) is leading some of us to believe that it isn't a 'just one day and out of the blue' situation.
Every single gymnast in my daughter's level has at some point slacked off on conditioning. We are talking about years of training...it is normal for kids to sometimes slack off. Could be a bad day, could be a mental thing...the particulars of why aren't very illuminating because it happens to everyone. The problem comes (in my opinion) when the parent or child tries to escape from dealing with the logical consequences of slacking off.
I'm sure your daughter didn't like getting called out publicly for not completing the conditioning. I think that is a pretty natural reaction for any of us when we are called out for not getting our stuff done. But I guess I don't understand why her answer couldn't have just been, "I'm sorry I didn't finish, tomorrow I know I need to work harder." Unless she did know why conditioning felt so hard...possibly because she wasn't mentally prepared to go beyond the normal workout, or because she had been doing a half-job on the normal workout, or because she just didn't want to do the workout and chose not to do it right. I give all these examples because I know my daughter (over the years) has dealt with the natural consequence of all of these choices. Lol.
I often think gymnastics is a sport where it is very difficult to hide. Gymnast train basically naked and in full view of the rest of their team. Everyone on the team knows who works hard and who cheats. Just like everyone knows who is picking up skills and who is struggling. Allowing coaches (who spend a ton of time with our kids and do know how to get the best out of them) to do their job and support their decisions is really important in helping our children trust the coaches have the gymnast's best interest at heart and care enough to call them out when necessary.
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