My DD (5yrs old) gets about 10 hrs of sleep each night during the week. Gym aside, school alone pretty much limits her sleep time to this. She catches the bus at 7, so has to be up by 6:30 at the latest. She HATES getting up (is not a morning person) and drags rump in the morning. She doesnt get off the bus until 4pm..so she only has 4 hrs between the time she
steps off the bus to "chill", eat, bathe, do any "homework" (normaly 2 days a week she will have a worksheet), get lunch ready for the next day, get clothes ready for the next day, do whatever her chore is that day (clear table, set table, unload dishwasher..ect.) and try and squeeze in a little time with her friend who stays with her grandma across the road from us when her mom is working. When I break it down like that it seems kinda sad that she is only 5 yet and i only get 4 hrs of waking time a day with her. And sad that at that age she only gets that much "free time". My DDs kindergarten does get a 45 min nap time (although we all know that by time most get to sleep its time to get up..lol)...they get down time even if they dont actually get to sleep. All the other area schools do not have nap time in kindergarten anymore..hers is the only one left.
My DS (will be 4 yrs old in less than a month) sleeps the same hours DD does. And he doesnt seem to need any more than that. He doesnt take naps during the day and will just play in his room when you try and put him down for one. His body seems to require alot less sleep. He is ready for bed at 8 and ready and willing to get at it at 6-6:30 when DD gets up (he is a VERY light sleeper) DD is like me and would stay up all night and sleep all day if given the chance.
Its really hard to say what is right and what is wrong. Everyone is different. I know myself I only need about 5 hrs a night..if i sleep more i feel worse than if i get less. I have always been that way.
Very interesting post.