- Jan 9, 2008
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Okay daughter mentioned a few weeks ago she was getting bored with gym when I asked for advice. She wanted to try other things so we signed up for volleyball she liked unfortunately this week is her first week back at the gym and volleyball practice is the same day and time as her first day of fall practice. When I ask her about how she feels about gymnastics she continues to tell me she is unsure if she wants to continue. She is a 10 year old level 6 this will be her 4th year on the team. She will not tell me why her feelings have changed I know as I stated before a lot of her friends have left. Last year she was more obsessed with gymnastics than ever before. She has gone through periods where she wanted to quit before just not this long. I am trying to get her to comit to the season which she has agreed hoping she will decide to stick with it. She is really ambivalent about she never brings up unless I ask her and when I asked her does she want to leave gym early for volleyball practice she says no it is her first day back but she has gymnastics for the next 3 days. I am not sure if I am doing the right thing by making her try to stick with it for the rest of the season. She will not come out and say I want to quit now. I have seen girls go back and forth and usually they do end up quiting. I wouldf not question my decision so much if she had not worked so hard and she really loved the ssport a couple months ago. Is it wrong making her commit to the season ? Should I stop bring it up and just wait until she comes up with her own decisicon? I do not want to pressure her into sticking with it because of me but I would hate for her to quit abruptly wand be sorry down the road