I am wondering about the consequences that are given out at elite gyms, and the treatment of the kids.
My daughter is training at an elite gym and she is eight years old. (There are elite level athletes in the gym that compete at the international level). Mentally it is tough even on me.
They expect her appearance at practice to be perfect. God forbid her hair is not correct, they have threatened to cut it several times. A few times a month someone else drops her off for me - if that person sends her in with the wrong hair I hear about it.
The other day she received ten ropes for a minor infraction in the gym. It may have been a misunderstanding, or maybe she was disrespectful. The coach also mentioned she was not doing a skill that she previously had done well. I did not see it but I know the coach yelled at her until she cried. Then the coach gave her 10 ropes and she has marks on her body from it.
It appears to be old school training? Do 50 tucks on the floor(mat) until you land it correctly. This concerns me.
My daughter loves the gym and there are certainly good things about it too. However I have made huge efforts (driving, financial, time, etc). To arrive at the gym after a very long drive and then have to hear about her appearance for practice (and she looks like a lot of other girls there) is very discouraging. I don't think they are picking on only her. I think it happens to other kids as well.
I value any feedback you have. Is it like this in other elite gyms?