My 8 year old has a hard time dealing with critism and correction. She gets very definsive and ugly about it. After a recent meet my DD asked what things she could work on to get a better score. So i gave her a couple of suggestions and immediately she got very defensive about it. "Well its hard" " I m trying as hard as I can""there is too much to remember" Basically just making excuses. She doesn't like hearing or seeing her mistakes. This is very frustrating since I was only doing what she asked. I told her next time she asked I wasn't going to tell her anything since she didn't listen anyway. That made her more upset since she realized I was upset with her. I think that she struggles a little with this at gym too based on some comments that she said to me last week. I don'tthink she has acted put out to them of said anything to them but she has complained to me about things that they have said. " I am trying as hard as I can" "They never say anything positive and only point out the things I do wrong" I know from knowing her she always forgets the positive stuff but really holds on to the negative stuff. Its not just gym either. You should hear her carry on when I correct her homework and the tears she cries when I try to correct her behavior. I am at my wits end in trying to figure out how to help her not get so upset when she realizes she is not perfect. Any advice I would greatly welcome.