- Dec 22, 2009
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I guess I am slow because it took me almost 24 hours to realize that one of the moms in my 4 year old's class is jealous. My daughter just this week moved into her second day of training with the level 3/4's who will be going on to try out for the level 4 team in March. They are 6 or are turning six this month for the most part. When we showed up for class, the mom looked at me and asked with a panicked look if my DD was in their class now. One of my good friends at the gym and also the owner of an awesome dance studio spoke up for me. ( Her daughter is also in the class.) She said yes that my DD was and she was better than all of them last year and they where holding her back intentionally because of her age. Her words, not mine. Stuff gets around at the gym, I guess. And thank God for this mom for speaking up and nipping it in the bud. I think she realized at the time where this mom was headed and has lots of experience dealing with this. But now that I am home and realize what actually could have been ugly on the other parents part, is this just a taste of what is to come? I am not the jealous type and I love for all the kids to succeed. I know from experience with my other kids that sometimes they are going to have good days and bad days but in the end you just want them to enjoy what they are doing and feel proud of their accomplishments. I have not had a bad experience at my gym before this because the moms that I talk to are all supportive of each other. I know this girl will be moving on in 2 months to compete level 4 and I think that is great. She has worked really hard and deserves it! I hope her mom lets her enjoy it. I feel bad that the mom feels threatened by a 4 year old but if she is going to survive the competition field, she better toughen up. No kid is going to be the best every time and that goes for my DD too. We are not even competing yet so doesn't this seem like overkill?