My young 6 year old is experiencing a bit of relational aggression from a young 9 year old in her level. It has been going on since she joined the group in late summer, but I think with the pressure of meet season is something my daughter should have help with in some form at this point (from me, or her coach, on accepting flaws in others, or being assertive ...? I'm out of my element).
She was in tears about it the night after the meet, about things that went on during the meet (in the bathroom mainly), and while I think it was mostly about A REALLY LONG DAY, it does mean I think I have to make sure she feels emotionally able to handle such an important environment in her life.
I know it is common wisdom to let the girls work it out for themselves. Am I being overprotective to think that at 6, it might be a bit much to expect her to properly relate to a girl almost 3 years older with some RA issues? I feel like they live in different worlds.
How old is too old of a teammate for a 6 year old to have to handle on her own? No age too old? 8? 9? 10? 12?
She was in tears about it the night after the meet, about things that went on during the meet (in the bathroom mainly), and while I think it was mostly about A REALLY LONG DAY, it does mean I think I have to make sure she feels emotionally able to handle such an important environment in her life.
I know it is common wisdom to let the girls work it out for themselves. Am I being overprotective to think that at 6, it might be a bit much to expect her to properly relate to a girl almost 3 years older with some RA issues? I feel like they live in different worlds.
How old is too old of a teammate for a 6 year old to have to handle on her own? No age too old? 8? 9? 10? 12?