How does your gym and the coaches deal with girls that pick on there team mates? For a few months my DD has been coming home from gym very frustrated and sometimes in tears because a team mate is picking on her - giving her dirty looks, watching her every move and telling her she is doing skills wrong, telling her she isn't completing her exercises, being mouthy with her. For a couple months I told DD to just ignore the behavior - not to stoop to this teammates level, it'll all blow over. After hearing it continue for over two months I finally told DD that if this team mate was going to be mouthy with her then it's time she stick up for herself and mouth back. (Not the best advice or aproach I assume but I was tired of hearing about my DD getting picked on). I went to the head coach and explained the situation and told her some of the things DD had told me about her team mates behavior. The response that I got was "Really? Because I don't see it". I'm frustrated that it was blown off and that I was made to feel like my DD was making things up or blowing this out of proportion. It has been another month since I told the Head Coach what was going on and the behavior still continues.
Has anyone else had a situation similar to this and if so, how does your gym and the coaches handle this situation?
Has anyone else had a situation similar to this and if so, how does your gym and the coaches handle this situation?