I wouldn't want to change gyms
But if we had to, I would be looking for UNDERSTANDING coaches… who believe that if the gymnast has the skills necessary to fulfill the requirements of a JO Level or Xcel Division, then they should be allowed compete that Level or Division. (No holding them back to improve the team scores … no stupid YOU MUST STAY AT AN XCEL DIVISION FOR 2 YEARS, no matter what … no you must score 36.00+ x number of times in a season … no you must place top 5 at State to move up).
I would look for a gym that, especially with older gymnasts, likes the idea of getting them out of compulsories (as soon as they are ready).
I would look for a gym that doesn't track girls to Xcel at the age of 7… or 8… or even 12 because they deem them "too old" for JO compulsories.
I would look for a gym that offered flexibility - practice doesn't start until after school is out for the day AND there is drive time to the gym… or there are different start times based on when you get out of school (or for home schooled students.
I would look for a gym that didn't treat Xcel as if it were the red-headed step child of the USAG family.
I would look for a gym that understands that children need to have lives outside of the gym… and that school and family functions may take precedence over gym.
I would look for a gym where bullying is not tolerated… even if it is the "star" of the gym - the same rules apply to everyone.
I would look for a gym that stresses the importance having of "back pocket" skills for their Optionals (L6-10 and Xcel), and the importance of using them when necessary.
I would look for a gym where all Optionals get their own music and routines (and the gymnasts have input into the music and the routines) and where the routines are tailored to maximize each gymnast's strengths while minimizing their weaknesses.
I would look for a gym that did their best to keep the costs down in this crazy, expensive sport (no need for a $200-$400 leotard for competition when they have nice ones available for around $100).