Parents Intentional placement at lower level?

[Bluebird777]

Hello! I have a daughter at a gym facility where she is very happy. However, I am concerned because she was placed in a level below others who don’t have the skills she has. Her coaches were surprised by this too. When I asked why (as in, “what skills does she need to work on?”), the owner of the gym said to me and to the coaches, “It is my decision.” Everyone else has been supportive and encouraging of my daughter’s aspirations, but the owner has instructed the coaches not to let her use her upper-level skills. It’s confusing to me when I see others in the upper-level unable to do what she can already do. I can’t figure out why she’s being held back, and it’s frustrating no responses are provided as to what she needs to work on. I want her to be in an encouraging environment, not one that discourages her. I am hesitant to change gyms because she is already comfortable and happy where she is with those around her, but I feel she is being blocked from progressing and I don’t know why. Is this a common issue at gyms? Maybe I just don’t understand.

 

[BusyMomof2]

what level and how old is she?

 

[Bluebird777]

what level and how old is she?

She is in level 2 but seems to be able to do level 3 skills. She just turned 9.

 

[Bluebird777]

Also I will add that she has no issues with coachability / following instructions.

 

[GymDadWA]

Lot of reasons why they would do this but it is unfortunate that they aren't communicating well.

The most likely is that while she can do upper level stuff she isn't doing it correctly and is beginning to ingrain improper form that will hold her back in the future. Things like bent arms during tumbling, arching on handstands, etc. That or she might not be doing her shapes correctly which will also hold her back and needs more fundamental development before proceeding forward.

Long term 2 or 3 really doesn't matter as both levels are not mandatory and being a competent 4 is really the important part. Nothing wrong with having a great season and developing skills slowly while winning ribbons.

 

[Bluebird777]

Thank you for the feedback! If you don’t mind me asking, do you think I should be worried about her being an “older” level 2? She has expressed a lot of love for the sport and has ambitions of making it to the college level. I was worried that her age would interfere with those plans and that a higher level placement would help her reach them. Again, I appreciate your feedback!

 

[raenndrops]

Her coaches were surprised by this too. When I asked why (as in, “what skills does she need to work on?”), the owner of the gym said to me and to the coaches, “It is my decision.” Everyone else has been supportive and encouraging of my daughter’s aspirations, but the owner has instructed the coaches not to let her use her upper-level skills.

There seems to be an issue with the owner.
I'm not one to jump to conclusions without evidence, but ... the parts in BOLD are red flags to me.

Is there any way you could get her evaluated at another gym ... just to see where they would place her? If they would also place her at Level 2, then stay where you are. If they would place her at Level 3 or higher, you and your daughter would have a decision to make.

Good luck.

 

[Bluebird777]

There seems to be an issue with the owner.
I'm not one to jump to conclusions without evidence, but ... the parts in BOLD are red flags to me.

Is there any way you could get her evaluated at another gym ... just to see where they would place her? If they would also place her at Level 2, then stay where you are. If they would place her at Level 3 or higher, you and your daughter would have a decision to make.

Good luck.

Thank you! We will take your advice and it is much appreciated!

 

[Bluebird777]

Thank you for the feedback! If you don’t mind me asking, do you think I should be worried about her being an “older” level 2? She has expressed a lot of love for the sport and has ambitions of making it to the college level. I was worried that her age would interfere with those plans and that a higher level placement would help her reach them. Again, I appreciate your feedback!

Sorry, I meant to post this as a reply to @GymDadWA

 

[GymDadWA]

do you think I should be worried about her being an “older” level 2? She has expressed a lot of love for the sport and has ambitions of making it to the college level. I was worried that her age would interfere with those plans and that a higher level placement would help her reach them.

I would not worry about the level. Very common to just skip 3 anyways as it is not a required level. What is most important is that she likes her coaches and teammates. Both levels are an introduction to competition, they help new gymnast understand and feel comfortable with meets and how gymnastics work.

 

[IreneKa]

Has she competed before or will this be her first year competing?
When my daughter first joined team she was place at L2 although she had most of her L3 skills. The reasoning was to give her experience competing easier skills and be successful. The rest of the girls in her groups competed L2 the year before, and even though they had fewer skills than my daughter they were all moved up to L3. I also thought this was unfair, but I could see their point.
The fact that the owner does not communicate with you clearly is worrisome and a red flag. Not necessarily something that requires immediate move, but something to keep an eye on.

 

[BusyMomof2]

Yeah - the gym owner thing is weird. In terms of college aspirations - don't even think about it now. In general, girls who go D1 need to be level 10 by freshman year but there are a ton of things that can happen between now and then. Let her enjoy the sport!

 

[Bluebird777]

I would not worry about the level. Very common to just skip 3 anyways as it is not a required level. What is most important is that she likes her coaches and teammates. Both levels are an introduction to competition, they help new gymnast understand and feel comfortable with meets and how gymnastics work.

Thank you, GymDadWA!

 

[Bluebird777]

Has she competed before or will this be her first year competing?
When my daughter first joined team she was place at L2 although she had most of her L3 skills. The reasoning was to give her experience competing easier skills and be successful. The rest of the girls in her groups competed L2 the year before, and even though they had fewer skills than my daughter they were all moved up to L3. I also thought this was unfair, but I could see their point.
The fact that the owner does not communicate with you clearly is worrisome and a red flag. Not necessarily something that requires immediate move, but something to keep an eye on.

Hi! Thank you for this info! She had not competed before so this will be her first year.

 

[Bluebird777]

Yeah - the gym owner thing is weird. In terms of college aspirations - don't even think about it now. In general, girls who go D1 need to be level 10 by freshman year but there are a ton of things that can happen between now and then. Let her enjoy the sport!

Thank you for sharing this perspective!