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I haven't posted in ages so apologies in advance for the absence...
So my daughter just turned 8 and is a L5 gymnast. She and one of her teammates did an extremely boneheaded thing at the gym the other day. I don't know the logisitics of how they did what they did, but somehow the two of them marked their names into a $4,000 balance beam. Both girls owned up to what they did and didn't make any excuses for why and accepted and completed their punishment. All of the girls on their team have been told if they ever do anything like this again they will be removed from the team. They understand this as do I.
My question is, as a parent what would you have your child do to atone for this incredibly stupid lapse in judgement? I obviously cannot afford to buy a $4,000 beam or even pay for half of one (not than anyone is aking), but I feel like we should do something and I don't know what. I've had her write a letter apologizing to her coaches and teammates that she will take to the gym tomorrow but that seems so small.
My other concern is I don't want my daughter to be permanently punished for this. I am all of a sudden so worried that all the Team Coordinator or her coaches and even the other parents will ever think of her as is the bad little girl who messed up a beam. Gymnastics seems to have such a long memory about bad things and such a short memory about good ones.
I also want to note that in no way am I excusing what she did. She is grounded from TV, her gameboy and we took away all of her leotards (except one) until she can prove that she has more respect for her gym and can earn them back. I feel like the worst parent ever right now and I am just so worried that this will have a permanent effect on what was supposed to be the beginning of her time in gymnastics.
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.
So my daughter just turned 8 and is a L5 gymnast. She and one of her teammates did an extremely boneheaded thing at the gym the other day. I don't know the logisitics of how they did what they did, but somehow the two of them marked their names into a $4,000 balance beam. Both girls owned up to what they did and didn't make any excuses for why and accepted and completed their punishment. All of the girls on their team have been told if they ever do anything like this again they will be removed from the team. They understand this as do I.
My question is, as a parent what would you have your child do to atone for this incredibly stupid lapse in judgement? I obviously cannot afford to buy a $4,000 beam or even pay for half of one (not than anyone is aking), but I feel like we should do something and I don't know what. I've had her write a letter apologizing to her coaches and teammates that she will take to the gym tomorrow but that seems so small.
My other concern is I don't want my daughter to be permanently punished for this. I am all of a sudden so worried that all the Team Coordinator or her coaches and even the other parents will ever think of her as is the bad little girl who messed up a beam. Gymnastics seems to have such a long memory about bad things and such a short memory about good ones.
I also want to note that in no way am I excusing what she did. She is grounded from TV, her gameboy and we took away all of her leotards (except one) until she can prove that she has more respect for her gym and can earn them back. I feel like the worst parent ever right now and I am just so worried that this will have a permanent effect on what was supposed to be the beginning of her time in gymnastics.
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.