OzZee
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- Apr 19, 2012
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I have a group of friends I've know for a long time (dd1's mother's group).
I'm feeling really judged by this group and just avoid talking about the kids to avoid talking about gymnastics.
They don't get it, even from one mum who I thought got it, the other day I was asked 'so do your kids not mind going to gym that much'.
I say how they are always asking for more, how much they love it, but I know they think that I am pushing them to do it (really forcing).
I don't want to lose friendship with this group and I am trying to not mention the G word, lol, but it's hard when it's such a big part of the girls lives (2 out of 3 do competitive, 1 does rec as well as other stuff).
Personally I'm not competitive so don't really get the whole competitive gymnastics thing, but hey I'm here to support my kids in whatever they want to do and steer them from doing anything bad - and that wouldn't be getting fit and strong and healthy!
So what do you say to people who just don't get it, especially if it's a whole group of friends who are questioning your lifestyle.
I'm feeling really judged by this group and just avoid talking about the kids to avoid talking about gymnastics.
They don't get it, even from one mum who I thought got it, the other day I was asked 'so do your kids not mind going to gym that much'.
I say how they are always asking for more, how much they love it, but I know they think that I am pushing them to do it (really forcing).
I don't want to lose friendship with this group and I am trying to not mention the G word, lol, but it's hard when it's such a big part of the girls lives (2 out of 3 do competitive, 1 does rec as well as other stuff).
Personally I'm not competitive so don't really get the whole competitive gymnastics thing, but hey I'm here to support my kids in whatever they want to do and steer them from doing anything bad - and that wouldn't be getting fit and strong and healthy!
So what do you say to people who just don't get it, especially if it's a whole group of friends who are questioning your lifestyle.