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I think it is pretty simple. Dear sport of gymnastics, boys are just not that into you!In my opinion, most children can benefit from a gymnastics education. Why is there such a large gender gap in enrollment (especially at lower levels)?
I believe this is due to the (wrongful) stereotype that male gymnasts are "gay". The amount of flexibility required and the physical closeness of the groups doesn't fit the stereotypical 'male' behaviors. This also may be due to the origin of gymnastics, where it was male only ((which many don't know today, but it may be where it stemmed from?)). Once woman started in the sport, people started unofficially assigning sports for men and woman which made standards of behavior change for what was considered a fit for these sports. Woman's gymnastics started out with emphasis on artistic- they didn't want muscular woman. So, if you watched woman's gymnastics, and don't see men's, you assume that is what men do too.In my opinion, most children can benefit from a gymnastics education. Why is there such a large gender gap in enrollment (especially at lower levels)?
I'd love to add to this!I think it is pretty simple. Dear sport of gymnastics, boys are just not that into you!
… But, maybe, it is possible to create more exceptions to this rule.
Thinking over my sons teammates over the years, most first came to the gym because their sisters were already there. Some, their parents were told it would be good for their hyperactive/climbs/jumps all over the furniture type kid or, the parents were gymnasts themselves.
In our case, I brought my eldest to the gym at age 7 because I noticed he lacked flexibility and I could not find a kids yoga class I liked for him. This was a very weird reason to come through the door, but there you are. Otherwise I never would have thought of it for him and he never, ever would have suggested it for himself. I do not think he knew what gymnastics was. But because this particular gym had really great male coaches and had a boys only rec class, he felt instantly happy and comfortable. They even had a preschool class just for boys for his brother. The end result, both my sons were gymnasts for years. This never would have happened at a gym that was less accommodating to boys.
I think it a rare boy who REALLY wants to do gymnastics from the getgo, above other sports and asks their parents to find a gym AND pay the fees.
And, I think it is an even RARER gym that offers an environment where those little boys who do make it through the door feel welcome and valued and “understood” as boys. Many other sports effortlessly offer that sense of belonging with a group of other boys that many boys truly crave.
So, I think gyms could make a difference here by promoting their boys gymnastics programs, hiring great male coaches to work with the boys (a female coach can work of course, but she would need to love and appreciate boys and boy energy) and by offering boy only rec classes starting very young.
But I think maybe most gyms understandably do not want to put too much energy into the reluctant boys when they have plenty of eager girls coming in the doors.
This is why I’m so thankful that my sons gym was founded by a former male gymnast (and he’s their coach). He really puts effort into the boys team and understands what it’s like to be a male gymnast himself. He also judges all over the region so he films their competitions and gives them point/deduction analysis which is so helpful to my boy who is a perfectionist. (He just started, so he’s level 3, but he’s so dedicated and I am immensely proud that he qualified for regionals in his first season.)I think it is pretty simple. Dear sport of gymnastics, boys are just not that into you!
… But, maybe, it is possible to create more exceptions to this rule.
Thinking over my sons teammates over the years, most first came to the gym because their sisters were already there. Some, their parents were told it would be good for their hyperactive/climbs/jumps all over the furniture type kid or, the parents were gymnasts themselves.
In our case, I brought my eldest to the gym at age 7 because I noticed he lacked flexibility and I could not find a kids yoga class I liked for him. This was a very weird reason to come through the door, but there you are. Otherwise I never would have thought of it for him and he never, ever would have suggested it for himself. I do not think he knew what gymnastics was. But because this particular gym had really great male coaches and had a boys only rec class, he felt instantly happy and comfortable. They even had a preschool class just for boys for his brother. The end result, both my sons were gymnasts for years. This never would have happened at a gym that was less accommodating to boys.
I think it a rare boy who REALLY wants to do gymnastics from the getgo, above other sports and asks their parents to find a gym AND pay the fees.
And, I think it is an even RARER gym that offers an environment where those little boys who do make it through the door feel welcome and valued and “understood” as boys. Many other sports effortlessly offer that sense of belonging with a group of other boys that many boys truly crave.
So, I think gyms could make a difference here by promoting their boys gymnastics programs, hiring great male coaches to work with the boys (a female coach can work of course, but she would need to love and appreciate boys and boy energy) and by offering boy only rec classes starting very young.
But I think maybe most gyms understandably do not want to put too much energy into the reluctant boys when they have plenty of eager girls coming in the doors.
That is fantastic! We eventually ended up at a gym like this and it was amazing for my son. But, my son was the rare child that wanted gymnastics, above other sports. We had him try them all. He loved it from the beginning. almost 20 years later, still loves it!This is why I’m so thankful that my sons gym was founded by a former male gymnast (and he’s their coach). He really puts effort into the boys team and understands what it’s like to be a male gymnast himself. He also judges all over the region so he films their competitions and gives them point/deduction analysis which is so helpful to my boy who is a perfectionist. (He just started, so he’s level 3, but he’s so dedicated and I am immensely proud that he qualified for regionals in his first season.)