- Oct 5, 2020
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I’m just posting this for support. Idk if I really have a question but I just wanted to share that I’m feeling sad for my gymnast. My daughter started on the competition team in December so she’s only been training for 3.5 months and had 2 competitions. She scored 33.3 and 33.6 and was pretty much in last place both meets. The reason is bc she can’t get her vault yet. I should mention she’s 6 years old and is on XCEL Bronze. She also almost fell off the bars.
She doesn’t know her scores and she doesn’t know where she finished bc I don’t tell her those things and I’m very thankful for COVID bc they aren’t doing awards. The rest of her team does really well and she’s always behind them in scoring. I think she can sense she didn’t do well just bc she didn’t seem happy afterwards but I praised her so much, told her how proud I was of her and actually the best thing was during the warm-up vault she actually got her vault for the first time!!! However when she had to do it in front of the judges she couldn’t do i. I just focused on the positive of her getting it. Idk I just feel if/when she starts to realize where she places it will it make her confidence go down.
I am totally fine with her repeating Xcel Bronze and think it will be great for her bc she will have a full year of training and perfecting skills.
I just wanted to share this. If anyone has advice for a gymnast that struggled early on. I really want her to stick with gymnastics and not worry about how she does bc this isn’t a race. I have no expectations for my daughter being elite or even going JO. I like her doing gymnastics for the strength, determination, grit, body awareness and discipline the sport gives her. As I said earlier we don’t talk about her scores nor do I tell her. The first comp she does know she came in last place but the second one she didn’t. She has a third comp next week and they will do awards so again I’m worried how she will feel. I know if she gets the vault it will shoot her score up and she’s so close to doing it. Thanks for letting me vent.
She doesn’t know her scores and she doesn’t know where she finished bc I don’t tell her those things and I’m very thankful for COVID bc they aren’t doing awards. The rest of her team does really well and she’s always behind them in scoring. I think she can sense she didn’t do well just bc she didn’t seem happy afterwards but I praised her so much, told her how proud I was of her and actually the best thing was during the warm-up vault she actually got her vault for the first time!!! However when she had to do it in front of the judges she couldn’t do i. I just focused on the positive of her getting it. Idk I just feel if/when she starts to realize where she places it will it make her confidence go down.
I am totally fine with her repeating Xcel Bronze and think it will be great for her bc she will have a full year of training and perfecting skills.
I just wanted to share this. If anyone has advice for a gymnast that struggled early on. I really want her to stick with gymnastics and not worry about how she does bc this isn’t a race. I have no expectations for my daughter being elite or even going JO. I like her doing gymnastics for the strength, determination, grit, body awareness and discipline the sport gives her. As I said earlier we don’t talk about her scores nor do I tell her. The first comp she does know she came in last place but the second one she didn’t. She has a third comp next week and they will do awards so again I’m worried how she will feel. I know if she gets the vault it will shoot her score up and she’s so close to doing it. Thanks for letting me vent.