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My lvl 4 went to a competition this last weekend and he did great. He did his floor routine and I noticed he was hesitant for various reason. He still made all of his skills AND all bonuses. When he finished, I was satisfied we'd be pleased with his score and I thought he nailed it. I didn't think it was perfect, but I'd been observing other kids and I thought he did really well. A good portion of the kids I saw did very basic routines, not as clean, etc...
The other level 4 parents and I waited for the scores and waited... and noticed that kids who'd gone after ours were coming up. One of the other parents asked what was up (I wouldn't have!), and they said there was a glitch. 1/2 hour later, the score for that event suddenly popped up with our kids' names. My son got a really low score, very low for him in particular. I was shocked. Honestly. I looked over at my son and saw he saw, and he looked so sad.
I asked the coach if he saw and he said he did. He said all of my son's skills were there and he didn't understand it either. I explained it might be a glitch, but the coach said he said he didn't want to make waves. I decided it's only level 4, so I needed to let it go.
However, my son brought it up after the competition and actually all dang weekend, bugging and bugging about it. He didn't understand, because he got 1st on floor in his age group at his last competition. He wouldn't let up. I told him scores aren't what matter. He said he wanted to place for it. He kept asking, why? I tried all every angle possible to get his mind off it, including gymnastics isn't about scores, but ninja skills (he loves that).
His persistence bugged me enough though, that tonight I looked up his scores and saw he placed LAST in his age group! How is that possible when other kids could barely RO, but he could RO/BHS with fairly good form? He had bonuses no other kid could do in any age group. I know I need to let this go, but what if it IS a glitch? What is the normal protocol? Can the coach go up to the judge if this happens again in the future and say something? My son cares about this stuff, whether I or you or anyone wants him not to care. How do I help him accept a score when he doesn't think it's fair? He was fine with every other score, including vault which was average.
P.S. Totally willing to share his floor routine video. Just PM me.
The other level 4 parents and I waited for the scores and waited... and noticed that kids who'd gone after ours were coming up. One of the other parents asked what was up (I wouldn't have!), and they said there was a glitch. 1/2 hour later, the score for that event suddenly popped up with our kids' names. My son got a really low score, very low for him in particular. I was shocked. Honestly. I looked over at my son and saw he saw, and he looked so sad.
I asked the coach if he saw and he said he did. He said all of my son's skills were there and he didn't understand it either. I explained it might be a glitch, but the coach said he said he didn't want to make waves. I decided it's only level 4, so I needed to let it go.
However, my son brought it up after the competition and actually all dang weekend, bugging and bugging about it. He didn't understand, because he got 1st on floor in his age group at his last competition. He wouldn't let up. I told him scores aren't what matter. He said he wanted to place for it. He kept asking, why? I tried all every angle possible to get his mind off it, including gymnastics isn't about scores, but ninja skills (he loves that).
His persistence bugged me enough though, that tonight I looked up his scores and saw he placed LAST in his age group! How is that possible when other kids could barely RO, but he could RO/BHS with fairly good form? He had bonuses no other kid could do in any age group. I know I need to let this go, but what if it IS a glitch? What is the normal protocol? Can the coach go up to the judge if this happens again in the future and say something? My son cares about this stuff, whether I or you or anyone wants him not to care. How do I help him accept a score when he doesn't think it's fair? He was fine with every other score, including vault which was average.
P.S. Totally willing to share his floor routine video. Just PM me.