Anon Selecting gym advice

[Anonymous (9b9c)]

We are trialing new gyms. Daughter is 10 and will be level 7 this coming season. One gym is an hour drive, more well known, has sent gymnasts to D1 colleges, daughter knows people there, have an option for an elite path, environment seems like it can be a little toxic, larger group size, girls score decent. The second gym is in a rebuild phase, newer, smaller, more 1:1 time, 10 minute drive, no D1 scholarships yet(gym seems very proactive in getting this element ramped up), no elite path yet, (they are open to it if any of the gymnasts are interested), prioritizing quality over quantity, girls score very good there, non-toxic, welcoming, and friendly. Are we crazy for considering the second one, with it not being as established? Thanks for any input or guidance you might have!

 

[Coach Kate]

What feeling do you get from your daughter about her goals? This is a big transition time both in gymnastics and in life, and in 2-3 years, things could look very differently. Level 8 can see a huge drop off in people leaving the sport and the pre teen years often present more social and school based activities as well.

Your child *could* be a level 10 by her freshman year of high school or she could already have decided to be done.

If she seems happy at the second gym and you are happy with the environment and the coaching, I don't see anything wrong with starting out there. If in two to three years, it seems like she could really be a top recruit or there's a true fire to try to make some moves in the elite world, then maybe you open up a conversation about the other gym, or maybe you really get serious with the second gym's coaches.

 

[Anonymous (9b9c)]

Thank you! She has a desire to possibly try for an elite path, but who knows what the next few years might bring. She liked both gyms, but prefers the first option where she knows people, as that’s more in her comfort zone. The second gym’s coach, really took time with her, evaluated what skills she has, and let us know she sees her talent and wants to be a part of her journey. Which, we thought was amazing. So, as parents, we feel more drawn to that one.