- Dec 6, 2012
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Dd is 5 and on the competitive level 1 team at her gym. Her gym competes level 1 and 2, and this is the track at her gym to the higher levels. The only other way to get to the higher levels at her gym is to come in from another gym's team. The rec classes at her gym are very low level (kids who cannot do pullovers or back hip circles). Girls who are able to do those things are all on either Xcel or JO team or pre-team.
Her gym has a very good reputation in our area at the optional levels. In fact, her gym is probably one that many optional gymnasts want to be at. They don't seem to be as strong at the compulsory levels, but are still fairly good.
We ended up at this gym more or less by accident. Last year, dd's friend was signing up for a rec class there because her parents are friends with the owners/HCs of the gym, so we decided to sign up dd as well. The gym is about 20-25 minutes away with no traffic, like during the middle of the day when she had her preschool rec classes, but is 45 min - 1hr away during rush hour. Dd was asked to join pre-team a few months into rec. At this gym, there are 2 tracks for pre-team. The younger girls are tracked into pre-team for JO Level 1 and the older girls are tracked into pre-team for Xcel Bronze.
Dd is having a fine time at gym and wants to continue. The things I have concerns about are the following:
1. Coach:gymnast ratio. Dd's team is huge with almost 30 girls in level 1. There are 2 groups within level 1 so at each practice there are 12-15 girls between the ages of 5-8. About 50% of the time, there are 2 coaches at practice, but the other half of the time, there is just 1 coach. What this means is that there is a lot of time standing in line for the girls for vault and not a lot of attention or corrections during the other apparatuses because it's almost impossible for one coach to keep a close eye on that many young girls. In addition, my dd is shy and not aggressive, so she struggles with other girls cutting her in line and as a result, dd getting fewer turns than the other girls. I've talked to dd about being more assertive, but it's not her natural personality and while she's working on it, it is not easy for her.
2. Convenience: The time it takes to get to the gym during the after school hours is a lot given the traffic. Next year, I expect her practices to be early evening, based on this year's schedule, and while this would be better in terms of driving time, it also would require pushing back dd's bed time by more than 1.5 hours. She has an earlier bed time than most of her peers because she needs a lot of sleep and also naturally wakes up early. I don't know how she would handle the sleep changes.
3. Gym style: At least at the lower levels, the philosophy seems to be to just try new skills many times until you can get them. I do not see progression drills. For example, they're working on standing BHS. The coach spots them doing BHS. I've seen drills for BHS on you tube and I don't know whether most gyms use drills or not, but I think my dd would do better with drills. She has on occasion expressed frustration at not picking up skills as quickly as some of the other girls and I think that is because this style may work better for them but not as great for my dd.
4. CGMs: Because this gym has a really good reputation at the higher levels, I suspect that many of the parents of kids on dd's team picked this gym intentionally because they have aspirations of baving a great gymnast some day, whereas dd kind of ended up at this gym and on team by accident. The moms make excuses if their children don't do well at a meet, and have their kids practice at home, and tell them all the tjings they did weong at practice or during a meet. I can see that some if the girls already put so much pressure in themselves and get angry at themselves for a mistake at a meet or if they do not medal, etc. Dd is one of the youngest on the team at 5 and really doesn't care about medaling. She just wants to have fun, and she is having fun. At this level and age, I think that's most appropriate, but I'm afraid that some of the other girls' attitudes will run off on her.
Are these reasons to consider other gyms? I have no idea whether dd will want to do gym long-term. If I knew she would, I would probably have her stay at her current gym because they are so good at the optional levels. From looking at mymeetscores, it looks like many of the optional gymnasts have been with the team since the compulsory levels, but a decent number seem to have made the switch from other gyms.
Her gym has a very good reputation in our area at the optional levels. In fact, her gym is probably one that many optional gymnasts want to be at. They don't seem to be as strong at the compulsory levels, but are still fairly good.
We ended up at this gym more or less by accident. Last year, dd's friend was signing up for a rec class there because her parents are friends with the owners/HCs of the gym, so we decided to sign up dd as well. The gym is about 20-25 minutes away with no traffic, like during the middle of the day when she had her preschool rec classes, but is 45 min - 1hr away during rush hour. Dd was asked to join pre-team a few months into rec. At this gym, there are 2 tracks for pre-team. The younger girls are tracked into pre-team for JO Level 1 and the older girls are tracked into pre-team for Xcel Bronze.
Dd is having a fine time at gym and wants to continue. The things I have concerns about are the following:
1. Coach:gymnast ratio. Dd's team is huge with almost 30 girls in level 1. There are 2 groups within level 1 so at each practice there are 12-15 girls between the ages of 5-8. About 50% of the time, there are 2 coaches at practice, but the other half of the time, there is just 1 coach. What this means is that there is a lot of time standing in line for the girls for vault and not a lot of attention or corrections during the other apparatuses because it's almost impossible for one coach to keep a close eye on that many young girls. In addition, my dd is shy and not aggressive, so she struggles with other girls cutting her in line and as a result, dd getting fewer turns than the other girls. I've talked to dd about being more assertive, but it's not her natural personality and while she's working on it, it is not easy for her.
2. Convenience: The time it takes to get to the gym during the after school hours is a lot given the traffic. Next year, I expect her practices to be early evening, based on this year's schedule, and while this would be better in terms of driving time, it also would require pushing back dd's bed time by more than 1.5 hours. She has an earlier bed time than most of her peers because she needs a lot of sleep and also naturally wakes up early. I don't know how she would handle the sleep changes.
3. Gym style: At least at the lower levels, the philosophy seems to be to just try new skills many times until you can get them. I do not see progression drills. For example, they're working on standing BHS. The coach spots them doing BHS. I've seen drills for BHS on you tube and I don't know whether most gyms use drills or not, but I think my dd would do better with drills. She has on occasion expressed frustration at not picking up skills as quickly as some of the other girls and I think that is because this style may work better for them but not as great for my dd.
4. CGMs: Because this gym has a really good reputation at the higher levels, I suspect that many of the parents of kids on dd's team picked this gym intentionally because they have aspirations of baving a great gymnast some day, whereas dd kind of ended up at this gym and on team by accident. The moms make excuses if their children don't do well at a meet, and have their kids practice at home, and tell them all the tjings they did weong at practice or during a meet. I can see that some if the girls already put so much pressure in themselves and get angry at themselves for a mistake at a meet or if they do not medal, etc. Dd is one of the youngest on the team at 5 and really doesn't care about medaling. She just wants to have fun, and she is having fun. At this level and age, I think that's most appropriate, but I'm afraid that some of the other girls' attitudes will run off on her.
Are these reasons to consider other gyms? I have no idea whether dd will want to do gym long-term. If I knew she would, I would probably have her stay at her current gym because they are so good at the optional levels. From looking at mymeetscores, it looks like many of the optional gymnasts have been with the team since the compulsory levels, but a decent number seem to have made the switch from other gyms.