Seriously you don’t want to go there.........
I’m good with my parenting choices. Mine is almost 16.........
And I’m big on natural consequences, educating herself (she is actually old enough to understand science, and have a discussion)..
I haven’t kept her home (Or us). No need. She would of been in school 5 days business as usual if it was up to me. She has been back at gym since last July. Playing HS sports since January. Any thing she has been kept from is due to over regulation not science. We made decisions based on the data and science with appropriate mitigation. She isn’t at high risk of disease. she is likely to get just as “sick” from the vax or if she gets Covid, at her age. And currently we and those at higher risk that are close to her are vaxed therefore protected.
We have mature discussion based on science, not fear...... And after all those discussions it will likely come down to the consequences. Mask or not..... wings clipped by other peoples decisions or not.
What I don’t do is lie. So she won’t be walking into places unmasked if their policy is vaxed or mask...... and I don’t look her in the eye and tell her this is a Vax with long term data and all will be perfectly fine. Likely yes, do I know for sure no. And if she asks what I would do I tell her. Her odds off getting and surviving Covid or vaxing issues are similar. She has a say..... what happens to her body. JMO, but it’s a huge thing. For us, in this family, to prevent abuse........