- Dec 22, 2016
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I am begining to think that it may be time for my kiddo to retire from gym. Her heart is still there but her body is having trouble keeping up. Shes just in pain alot and realistically her problems are not easily solved so its a kind of can you deal with the pain or not situation. Being an athlete is a big part of how she sees herself so I am trying to find alternative sports but she is ridiculously picky. I know some if it will just have to come down to try it and see if you like it but I wanted to see if there are any sports I am not thinking of. She has a lot of feet problems so big running sports are likely out. Below is what I have come up with.
Maybe we should try sports:
Diving (duh but shes hesistant)
Rowing
Softball or baseball
pickleball (does this count I'm not sure lol)
Dance (she did it some when she was younger but seemed skeptical when I brought it up again and its still a lot on your feet barefoot)
Fencing (havent asked her about this one yet)
Ones that wont work or she has said no to already:
Soccer
Field Hockey
Lacrosse
Volleyball
Track (any running heavy activity will be hard for her)
tennis (she was interested once but now says no)
wrestling
Martial Arts (I still kinda want her to do this just to stay in shape and for self protection etc.)
cheerleading
I think she wants something that is still intense but maybe not as much as gym. I think she wants more than 1-2 times a week for a 3 month season ya know. I think a year round sport/training would be good just maybe not the same hours that gym was.
I hate this transition periods are always tough I just hate this inbetween stage of not knowing how its all going to turn out. Gym is a sport I love its a sport she loves its just not a sport thats loving her back plus shes good at it I think it would be easier to push retiring if she sucked.
Maybe we should try sports:
Diving (duh but shes hesistant)
Rowing
Softball or baseball
pickleball (does this count I'm not sure lol)
Dance (she did it some when she was younger but seemed skeptical when I brought it up again and its still a lot on your feet barefoot)
Fencing (havent asked her about this one yet)
Ones that wont work or she has said no to already:
Soccer
Field Hockey
Lacrosse
Volleyball
Track (any running heavy activity will be hard for her)
tennis (she was interested once but now says no)
wrestling
Martial Arts (I still kinda want her to do this just to stay in shape and for self protection etc.)
cheerleading
I think she wants something that is still intense but maybe not as much as gym. I think she wants more than 1-2 times a week for a 3 month season ya know. I think a year round sport/training would be good just maybe not the same hours that gym was.
I hate this transition periods are always tough I just hate this inbetween stage of not knowing how its all going to turn out. Gym is a sport I love its a sport she loves its just not a sport thats loving her back plus shes good at it I think it would be easier to push retiring if she sucked.