Well - I haven't been here very long but I must just thank everyone here whose wise words have helped me recently - let me explain.
DD is a talented mite - her coach regualrly tells her she is the most naturally talented gymnast in the club. The trouble is she is afraid of everything ! She wont attempt new thing in case she fails and recently she has been driving me potty.
We have just had school half term (1 week holiday) and normal gym is replaced with two days of 9-4 training for team girls so I decided that we needed a break. I told DD that we were having a break from gym to sort out her attitude ( it had got to the point of her stomping around the gym shouting "its not fair" and slapping the mats in temper- her not me!) and to stop mummy going nuts!
So we have missed 2 weeks of training.
I am feeling much more relaxed, no battles for two weeks and reading lots of post on here has made me realise that her pace may not be mine - just because I know she can do something doesn't me she does. She will get ther in the end.
Well I'm feeling fairly Zen like atm, however gym starts again on Monday so we'll see how long that lasts !
'Margo
DD is a talented mite - her coach regualrly tells her she is the most naturally talented gymnast in the club. The trouble is she is afraid of everything ! She wont attempt new thing in case she fails and recently she has been driving me potty.
We have just had school half term (1 week holiday) and normal gym is replaced with two days of 9-4 training for team girls so I decided that we needed a break. I told DD that we were having a break from gym to sort out her attitude ( it had got to the point of her stomping around the gym shouting "its not fair" and slapping the mats in temper- her not me!) and to stop mummy going nuts!
So we have missed 2 weeks of training.
I am feeling much more relaxed, no battles for two weeks and reading lots of post on here has made me realise that her pace may not be mine - just because I know she can do something doesn't me she does. She will get ther in the end.
Well I'm feeling fairly Zen like atm, however gym starts again on Monday so we'll see how long that lasts !
'Margo