respect? respect is shown by accepting that other people have different standards than you have. this means accepting their choices instead of policing them for not complying with your personal moral standards (i personally think that it is very harmful for young women to be taught that their body is something to be ashamed of and that they are prey for men or something like that - and you *do* teach this by implying that clothing can be "too high cut" or whatever. but again, that's just me!) everyone should decide for themselves what to wear while respecting the rules fo the chosen sport, and that's it.